Petty

But to keep it safe just have online dom on second life they still control you but you don’t gotta meet them in real. They have rlv and emotes , toys can control in real if you just keep it online no ...

Thu Jan 30, 2025 8:56 am • 19 Replies • 1533 Views

Petty

Kink is customizable. The main rule is consent.

It sounds like you aren't willing to consent to a vanilla marriage with him, knowing your needs won't be met.
It sounds like he's not interested i ...

Thu Jan 30, 2025 8:25 am • 19 Replies • 1533 Views

Frustrated

I feel like communication has been mentioned a lot. But I have communicated. I told him the dynamic was pretty much dying or dead. No response, no action. So I put the sub in me aside and moved on. I ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 8:23 am • 31 Replies • 2910 Views

Frustrated

Unfortunately you can't make him have or enjoy the same kinks as you. As much as you try it just will not work. It seems he is content and you aren't. It's a difficult position I'm sure.

From your ...

Wed Jan 15, 2025 4:48 am • 31 Replies • 2910 Views

Petty

Thank you to everyone that posted. I agree with so much that has been said. I particularly appreciated that maybe everything that I thought was “real” is just staged or for effect on Fet. That really ...

Mon Jan 13, 2025 1:16 am • 19 Replies • 1533 Views

How to help spinning sub

My counselor helped me to compartmentalize anxious thoughts and spiraling anxiety. He gave me the homework assignment to make myself not think anxious thoughts for a specific time (10 minutes to begin ...

Mon Jan 13, 2025 1:05 am • 21 Replies • 1356 Views

Petty

So I posted a message several weeks ago about my husband not wanting kink like I do and I got so many good responses. All good advice. I talked to my husband yesterday. I explained why I had de-activa ...

Sun Jan 12, 2025 2:20 am • 19 Replies • 1533 Views

Frustrated

Unfortunately you can't make him have or enjoy the same kinks as you. As much as you try it just will not work. It seems he is content and you aren't. It's a difficult position I'm sure.

From your ...

Sun Dec 15, 2024 5:08 am • 31 Replies • 2910 Views

Frustrated

I did not in any way think you are being mean, ugly about your mate. I gathered from the OP how much you like, respect, love him..
I don't know that weight would get many rejections.

I mean read ...

Sun Dec 15, 2024 3:52 am • 31 Replies • 2910 Views

Frustrated

I feel like communication has been mentioned a lot. But I have communicated. I told him the dynamic was pretty much dying or dead. No response, no action. So I put the sub in me aside and moved on. I ...

Sat Dec 14, 2024 9:21 pm • 31 Replies • 2910 Views