*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

I am sort of new...I am a submissive through and through...I am a sissy...

Thu Oct 17, 2019 2:16 am • 3267 Replies • 1139856 Views

Hello Everyone!

welcome!

Sun Mar 04, 2018 12:21 am • 5 Replies • 5271 Views

Commited people having vanilla and BDSM paralell lives

I have been married for almost 18 years. My wife knew of my kinks/desires before we were married. and in the beginning I was content for it to be a "in the bedroom, once in awhile" type thing. Gradu ...

Tue Feb 27, 2018 1:58 pm • 12 Replies • 11658 Views

New to being a dominate

dominantguide.com can be helpful...but nothing beats hands on, or mentoring. I tried my hands at being a top at the request of my wife. I didn't know anything other than from porn. I did a lot of r ...

Tue Feb 27, 2018 3:02 am • 5 Replies • 6911 Views

A Question for My Fellow Submissive Guys

I've been married to my Domme for almost 18 years, so I am a bit rusty in finding dominant women. My best advice is to get involved in your local kink group, or nearest one. I have met more great pe ...

Tue Feb 20, 2018 5:05 pm • 24 Replies • 21726 Views

Decorum: Does labeling yourself a submissive mean strangers should treat you like one?

no...absolutely not. True submission is a gift...it is earned, and agreed to.

Mon Feb 19, 2018 7:41 am • 21 Replies • 15751 Views

Refusal to Negotiate in D/s

I agree...there has to be a discussion.

Mon Feb 19, 2018 4:57 am • 14 Replies • 15660 Views

Lots of questions not sure where to begin.

read everything you can, while keeping an open mind...submissive guide is a good source. Don't be afraid to ask people in the scene, and experiment.

Mon Feb 19, 2018 3:55 am • 7 Replies • 7026 Views