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I feel like you need to be a sub before being a dom

Your point, in my opinion, does have some merit. But no matter how flat you make a pancake, there's always two sides.

My Dom & I have attended events both in person and online for decades. On ...

Mon May 11, 2026 2:30 pm • 12 Replies • 761 Views

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pioneer man

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Lifestyle BDSM

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I feel like you need to be a sub before being a dom

GenZ Malesub Thoughts Wanted! :D

WOW! You peaked my curiosity. I'm wondering how the younger generation really feels about all this.

Full disclosure: I have been a sub in a Femdom marriage for many years. Quite frankly, as an "o ...

Thu Apr 30, 2026 2:27 am • 10 Replies • 741 Views

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pioneer man

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Femdom

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GenZ Malesub Thoughts Wanted! :D

Early Days / your Process

It depends on the dynamic and the rules agreed upon. Many D/s dynamics require a contract to spell out exactly what and how much is allowed.

Topping from the bottom is not good for any D/s dynam ...

Thu Apr 23, 2026 2:18 am • 10 Replies • 1068 Views

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pioneer man

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Maledom

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Early Days / your Process

Introduction/Advice

Glad to help if we can. We been in our Femdom lifestyle for years been married for 53 years and still young at heart.

If we can be of any help, let us know what your interests are. We will be ha ...

Sat Apr 18, 2026 2:37 am • 7 Replies • 394 Views

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pioneer man

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Introductions

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Introduction/Advice

The main thing is to do your research methodically. Take your time figuring out what works best fo you. Never let anyone tell you what is best for you - that's for you and you alone to decide.

As ...

Sat Apr 18, 2026 2:29 am • 7 Replies • 394 Views

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pioneer man

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Introductions

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Introduction/Advice

Questions for seasoned bdsm users

Looked at your profile and my Dom & I went to our first event a decade or two before you were born. We have met a lot of wonderful people through the years at different types of events. Of cours ...

Sat Mar 28, 2026 5:03 pm • 8 Replies • 1104 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Questions for seasoned bdsm users

The economics of interaction.

Truemasterkai - Didn't check your profile before my earlier post. We're a former New York state couple. Lived our entire lives south of Bufffalo. Our yearly erotic event was in Rochester, but has r ...

Thu Mar 19, 2026 9:45 pm • 4 Replies • 467 Views

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pioneer man

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Generally Speaking

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The economics of interaction.

Economics is different for everyone. My Dom & I are in a Femdom marriage, so often we have had to put a lot of focus on financies instead of our Femdom lifestyle. The trick is to learn how to bl ...

Thu Mar 19, 2026 5:41 pm • 4 Replies • 467 Views

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pioneer man

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Generally Speaking

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The economics of interaction.

Exhibitionism

In my personal opinion, Miki gave the best advice you could ever get.

Here's my little addition: I am older than many that post here and I am in a Femdom marriage. Been married 53 years and we hav ...

Tue Mar 17, 2026 4:59 pm • 6 Replies • 812 Views

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pioneer man

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Fetish

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Exhibitionism

Whar is....?

As a Femdom sub for years, I would say that I love the way my Dom respects me as her sub.
She took her time to train me from light submission to a lifestyle of full 24/7 submission which I love and w ...

Wed Mar 11, 2026 4:20 pm • 5 Replies • 673 Views

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pioneer man

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Whar is....?