Defining slave/Submissive/Bottom

Soulweaver's distinction between submissive and slave jives nicely with the description given by Deborah Teramis Christian.

http://www.teramis.com/kink/subvslave.htm

Taking an assist from Steven ...

Sat Jul 06, 2019 10:14 pm • 13 Replies • 6753 Views

D/s Relationship

Agreed. I understand the respect is earned thing. But as soon as I said I deserve respect too that’s what he says to me. I just don’t get it

So then, given some chat between two strangers, it seems ...

Thu Jul 04, 2019 2:42 am • 34 Replies • 15799 Views

D/s Relationship

You are absolutely right! You do deserve respect! He might just be another poseur looking for easy sex which is interesting for someone who claims to be blunt, who claims not to sugarcoat anything. ...

Thu Jul 04, 2019 2:34 am • 34 Replies • 15799 Views

Trump Supporters

No, I never said the word ALL. I was asking those that have that on their profile.

It was only a recent observation I've seen on some profiles.

I have friends from all over. I've been thro ...

Tue Jul 02, 2019 2:24 am • 99 Replies • 31882 Views

Trump Supporters

My feathers aren't ruffled. I was curious of this trend and saddened to see people lumped together.

Thought we were individual people not defined by assumptions.


And why would you assume tha ...

Tue Jul 02, 2019 1:38 am • 99 Replies • 31882 Views

Trump Supporters

What's the big deal? Political differences matter to many people, including me.

So why not be upfront about this? Nobody is being forced to put this in or take this out of their profile. And b ...

Tue Jul 02, 2019 1:24 am • 99 Replies • 31882 Views

Desires ruining my relationship

He thinks this friend is more knowledgeable about what I want then I am. He’s getting wrong information about the lifestyle and refuses to listen. I appreciate your comment as it was very beneficial. ...

Sat Jun 29, 2019 5:13 pm • 11 Replies • 5854 Views

Desires ruining my relationship

Be yourself!

Life is too short to be inauthentic; we all play a role ---- read Erving Goffman, a famous sociologist ---- but why be forced to do so in our personal life? To me, that's the one s ...

Sat Jun 29, 2019 2:30 am • 11 Replies • 5854 Views

Bad grammar and butchering a language

To me, the inability to write well is a proxy, albeit an imperfect one, for a lack of skill as a dominant.

Skimming through the intolerably boring and turgid profiles of these male "doms" looking ...

Sun Jun 23, 2019 7:38 pm • 20 Replies • 7858 Views