Seeking a Dominant mentor for task ideas

I use daily tasks as well and like you am looking for new ideas to use. I like the idea of a daily journal entry. I have found this site very helpful. Also if you haven’t already read some of the blog ...

Wed Aug 29, 2018 3:29 am • 12 Replies • 9675 Views

New sub wondering about eye contact...

I agree. I am still new as well but have learned that communication is key. Both people need to understand the needs and wants of the other person. There are still boundaries on both sides and having ...

Thu Aug 23, 2018 3:45 am • 11 Replies • 13014 Views

New sub wondering about eye contact...

I agree. I am still new as well but have learned that communication is key. Both people need to understand the needs and wants of the other person. There are still boundaries on both sides and having ...

Thu Aug 23, 2018 3:44 am • 11 Replies • 13014 Views

First D/s

I can’t comment on how it is for a sub because I am not one. But as a new first time dom in a monogamous LTR I strongly believe that I could not go back to a “regular” vanilla relationship. Actually m ...

Wed Aug 22, 2018 4:56 am • 23 Replies • 11858 Views

Question...

Honestly if that makes them uninterested then they are not for you. Your family comes first no matter what. Even though you are a sub you should have standards and requirements just like any other rel ...

Tue Jul 31, 2018 4:37 am • 15 Replies • 10228 Views

Is it possible?

I am new as well. My sub is more experienced and we are in a monogamous and full time (not just in the bedroom) relationship together. We have kids from previous relationships but we have figured a wa ...

Fri Jul 20, 2018 4:38 am • 8 Replies • 4252 Views

Curiosity

I am new to this lifestyle but I have learned so much not just about bdsm but also about myself and my needs and desires. Over the years I have felt this desire to control more in my relationships. I ...

Thu Jun 28, 2018 4:06 am • 4 Replies • 3348 Views

About to enter a 6 month trial Master/Slave arrangement with my husband

I think the trial idea is great as well. I am new to the dom sub lifestyle but my girlfriend is more experienced. It has taken us some time to find our groove but I really enjoy what it brings to our ...

Thu Jun 28, 2018 3:44 am • 4 Replies • 4641 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello everyone. I’m a 33 dom male and new to this lifestyle but am really enjoying it. I am in a committed relationship with a more experienced submissive who opened my eyes to this lifestyle. We join ...

Thu Jun 07, 2018 4:02 am • 3162 Replies • 999974 Views