Suggestion Thread

There is an issue with posting blogs posts that had been drafts. It's been a while since I've dealt with this issue so sorry if it has already been resolved.

Here is the issue... If I start a blog ...

Thu Sep 20, 2018 3:51 pm • 218 Replies • 95823 Views

What is your kink playlist?

What are your favorite songs for parties, dungeons or personal play? I'd love to expand my own collection. *Please post as a list so it's easy for others to copy.

Here are my favs...

Ciara, Pai ...

Tue Sep 18, 2018 6:01 am • 0 Replies • 2008 Views

Safety Concerns: Chastity Cages

A high quality cage and an excellent fit is a must. In my opinion, a metal cage design of some kind is the only style appropriate for long term ware. Plastic, sicone, or any enclosed style won't work ...

Mon Aug 20, 2018 3:35 pm • 11 Replies • 10583 Views

Sexual expression

@outsideleft
I feel that that was a totally respectful and appropriate approach to your need to withdraw from the relationship. While I can't speak for her or the context of the dynamic, you are enti ...

Sun Mar 11, 2018 1:01 am • 8 Replies • 8448 Views

Packing Toys for a Move

You can also wrap them in your linens like pillow cases, bed sheets and towels. Those need to get packed anyway. You can create layers of separation by rolling.

Thu Feb 15, 2018 6:43 pm • 5 Replies • 5465 Views

s-type Sabotage

Does anyoneone have any expereince in an s type intentionally messing up to get attention? I don't mean in a playful, braty way but in a malicious, can't ever do the right thing, kind of way.

I be ...

Tue Jan 30, 2018 6:16 pm • 2 Replies • 3996 Views

Leather vs Pleather

I went to a bootblack at at a Leather event and I was asked if my boots were genuine or imitation leather as it made a difference which products would be best for them.

I have been to several Leat ...

Fri Jan 26, 2018 8:05 pm • 4 Replies • 3776 Views

Sexual expression

There are no rules for what your dynamic should be. It gets to be whatever you and your partner cultivate and enjoy. Additionally, healthy D/s can still have sex, intimacy, and even romance. I find th ...

Mon Jan 22, 2018 3:03 am • 8 Replies • 8448 Views

An over-eager, desperate and now forlorn new sub

What you are experiencing is quite common. I have been on the other end of the "sub-frenzy" on multiple occasions and it almost never ends well.

I will offer encouragement in that it seems you hav ...

Thu Jan 11, 2018 4:53 am • 10 Replies • 13562 Views

Any truly sadistic women out there

There are. You may find that Domme women want to "warm up" to that level of play. Personally, I need to develop trust and play a few times before I can be comfortable with edgier play.

I actually ...

Sat Dec 30, 2017 5:03 pm • 5 Replies • 5632 Views