Does being a submissive in BDSM translate to being a follower in normal life?

Not at all! I am a believer that most submissives are classic control freaks/type A personalities in their every day life. The boss, chief, captain, etc..... submission is a safe place, a respite

Tue Mar 10, 2020 7:38 pm • 14 Replies • 7512 Views

Sending stuff abroad.

I'd be willing to bet that it's because of the amount of scams that come out of African countries that they make it hard to send things there. There are even warnings of the infamous 419 scams on the ...

Sun Mar 08, 2020 3:34 pm • 2 Replies • 2100 Views

Is she really a sub

It’s a kink just like anything else. You find those that are or are not into it. This being a BDSM site has no bearing on whether you find someone into what you are into. Fishermen famously say “that ...

Fri Mar 06, 2020 7:17 pm • 14 Replies • 8418 Views

clamps that stay on, but aren't too "extreme" for beginner

Which have you tried?

The least extreme ones (to me) are the ones that look like tweezers and have a slide to adjust. I’ve never had them come off, but I have small nipples.

The next step up ar ...

Mon Feb 24, 2020 6:31 pm • 12 Replies • 6381 Views

Finding Balance in our Christian home

@Erick
Your constant need to elaborate and evangelize just continues to point out how wrong you are and makes matter worse. You openly say that you have never been a Christian, why are you even weig ...

Tue Feb 11, 2020 3:44 pm • 21 Replies • 9065 Views

Finding Balance in our Christian home

A modest proposal:

There is one Christian way you can get around that "head of household" stuff. (It's the ONLY way that I know of.) You can both become TRANSSEXUALS!.

There is no becoming... on ...

Tue Feb 11, 2020 12:42 am • 21 Replies • 9065 Views

What is more important -Compatibility or Chemistry

I had someone give me that advice 15+ years ago. I met an amazing man, checked all the boxes compatibility wise, but on my end the chemistry was never quite right. We were together 14 years, it was ...

Sun Feb 09, 2020 9:09 pm • 17 Replies • 5589 Views

What Do You Do For Sub Drop?

I've never really needed anything more than cuddles and affection... even if I play hard and have flown pretty high. Simple girl, I guess. Laura is the same, in fact she prefers to perform an act of ...

Sun Feb 02, 2020 9:09 pm • 6 Replies • 2098 Views

Things you wished you knew when you started out?

I had no idea that on a website where people supposedly post messages with the purpose of meeting each other and forming relationships, there would be so many posters who say: "Do NOT message me. I am ...

Mon Jan 27, 2020 1:32 am • 32 Replies • 15340 Views

Subtlety

Sometimes I will twirl my finger in the necklace that she wears as a day collar until it's tight against her throat and then give a little tug... I feel her melt every time.

Sun Jan 26, 2020 5:11 pm • 11 Replies • 5987 Views