Biggest Turn On

My biggest turn on and probably the most important thing to me, is the connection. When my focus is on taking care of my submissive and her focus is on taking care of me, everything afterwords can be ...

Thu Apr 09, 2020 2:51 pm • 53 Replies • 24510 Views

Helping Him

My mind is always processing things. I think the only time it stops spinning is when I’m sleeping, and even then I’m not so sure. When I struggle with things, it’s usually best if those around me just ...

Mon Mar 16, 2020 4:25 pm • 6 Replies • 4677 Views

A question(s) for Doms

I’d like to add my 2 cents here. I’m not a big fan, necessarily, of naked house cleaning, but I think this speaks to a bigger theme of mental stimulation (turn on). Speaking generically, the idea of t ...

Fri Mar 13, 2020 10:41 pm • 12 Replies • 9922 Views

Mentor no mentor

I am personally against having a mentor on the other side of the slash, there is just too much room for predators and the strong possibility of emotions getting involved. Stay with a peer mentorship, ...

Tue Jan 14, 2020 4:23 pm • 9 Replies • 4027 Views

What is a Protector?

Before accepting anyone as a protector, be careful. Like Dollmaker said, they can offer to be a protector and use it as a gateway for abuse. Simply put, know the person and be able to trust them befor ...

Thu Aug 08, 2019 5:38 pm • 10 Replies • 6868 Views

What is a Protector?

One of the big things in this lifestyle is trust and respect. If a sub had a protector and I refused to respect the protocols she wanted, ie...go through her protector first, then that would show I’m ...

Tue Aug 06, 2019 12:33 am • 10 Replies • 6868 Views

Tell Me All About Real Doms

I don’t know that I would say I’ve been a Dom my entire life, but I believe I do have certain qualities that I have developed and discovered over time that leads me to believe I am a Dom. I think a re ...

Wed Jul 10, 2019 10:22 pm • 11 Replies • 14098 Views

D/s Relationship

For what it’s worth, I wholeheartedly concur. My personal view is that I give respect first, and treat others as people deserving said respect. However, I feel I must earn the respect of others by tre ...

Fri Jul 05, 2019 1:42 am • 34 Replies • 18425 Views

How To Take Care Of A Dom....

I wholeheartedly agree with @Fud on this. Hearing her voice or reading a text can do so much for me. Knowing that she puts our relationship first and will fight to protect it fulfills a lot of my need ...

Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:21 am • 13 Replies • 10766 Views

A curious question for the Dominants...

I guess it all depends on how you define the terms, but for me there cannot be one without the other. I define love as, “a conscious decision to put someone else’s needs before mine. Her needs/wants ...

Sun Dec 16, 2018 4:44 am • 25 Replies • 15383 Views