Poly Relationships

I do not envy you in this.

My opinion is write down everything you need to say and have a blunt and honest conversation about your needs.


But-- that is the easiest part of this.

The harder ...

Wed Oct 24, 2018 8:34 pm • 4 Replies • 3104 Views

Mentoring New subs

I agree that sub to sub mentoring is better.
It removes the complexity of the sub/Dom dynamic and promotes insight.

It stops the sub from concentrating on the Dom and allows for the sub to concen ...

Wed Oct 24, 2018 8:19 pm • 39 Replies • 19311 Views

Hi, slut

I do not do honorifics unless that has been negotiated.

Wed Oct 24, 2018 8:09 pm • 70 Replies • 31215 Views

Vanilla Mixing

I'm so sorry to hear.

I hope you are able to reach a healthy middle ground.


If it's any help-

I dont have sex with those that serve my party.

They are service only.

Wed Oct 24, 2018 12:34 am • 4 Replies • 3272 Views

Getting Over an Abusive Dom

It is not uncommon for abused submissives to go on to be dominant to feel safer.

What I have seen that works best is to ride this out. Dont force yourself to feel.
Keep your foot in the game as a ...

Tue Oct 23, 2018 7:18 pm • 7 Replies • 4210 Views

Vanilla Mixing

Without any other relationships.

I am assuming you mean play partners as well.


You can't.

I am not intending to be harsh here.

Assuming that your submissive joy comes from serving a pe ...

Tue Oct 23, 2018 7:06 pm • 4 Replies • 3272 Views

Too old to be a Daddy?

History in BDSM.

It is a new thing-- within the last 2 or 3 years that there has been a huge influx of very young folks coming into BDSM.

Our history is that ppl had to be older and have a spons ...

Tue Oct 23, 2018 2:59 am • 40 Replies • 18033 Views

New experiences

Congrats!!!!

Tue Oct 23, 2018 2:54 am • 2 Replies • 2665 Views

Mistress wants money

RUN

Tue Oct 23, 2018 2:53 am • 34 Replies • 47007 Views

Alternative Names?

I call my slave "my love" or "beloved"
she calls me "punkin "


We do that because of consent issues in vanilla space. It maintain dynamics no matter where we are.

Tue Oct 23, 2018 2:51 am • 19 Replies • 8710 Views