Blending the D/s dynamic with the vanilla world

We are 25/7.
We blend very easily--

Mostly because we dont call attention to it. We also value consent.

The general public did not consent to be
Party to our dynamic.

Collars are fin ...

Thu Feb 20, 2020 7:47 pm • 4 Replies • 3446 Views

Mental awareness

"Do you think that we ( family , friends , partners) could help someone who is in depression? "

Help yes- but take accountability for no.
And be prepared for the outcome to be your help is not fo ...

Thu Feb 20, 2020 7:39 pm • 33 Replies • 9710 Views

Willingness to post profile pictures

@lord of pain

You didn't say anything a out being ashamed the OP did.


I also never said anything about everyone being out.


Stop putting words in my mouth.

My pic isnt here because ...

Wed Feb 19, 2020 3:36 am • 26 Replies • 9150 Views

Hint Dropping?

If he gets freaked out because you are blunt - THERE IS YOUR ANSWER.

Wed Feb 19, 2020 3:30 am • 13 Replies • 7239 Views

To be or not to be...both slave and little...

There are no rules here.
We are M/s24/7 and gave been for going on 19 years.
My beloved also has a little side. I read her books at night. Make sure she has her dolls and bunkie.

One moves slo ...

Wed Feb 19, 2020 3:26 am • 6 Replies • 2708 Views

BDSM Club

Google your area and BDSM

Wed Feb 19, 2020 3:24 am • 5 Replies • 2929 Views

What should you do if you catch your new Dom in a lie

Great question.

It depends.

For you- personally-
what does a lie mean?
What does this lie mean?

Does this lie affect your ability to trust?

No one is honest 100% of the time.

B ...

Wed Feb 19, 2020 3:22 am • 30 Replies • 13347 Views

A feminist and a submissive?

Being a feminist is--- at its core--- the idea that a woman should have access to choices.

A person can absolutely be a feminist and a slave.

Because the other part of feminism-- at its core ...

Sun Feb 16, 2020 11:07 am • 6 Replies • 3452 Views

Willingness to post profile pictures

There is a difference between not posting your pic because it's just not something you do AND not posting your pic because your to afraid or ashamed to.

In my opinion -- a lot of BDSM is about com ...

Sun Feb 16, 2020 10:49 am • 26 Replies • 9150 Views

Willingness to post profile pictures

What I have found is that a confident Dom on is considered a sexier Dom.


I also look at it like this --'x Once you're in a relationship with somebody are you just going to continue to wear that ...

Sun Feb 16, 2020 9:56 am • 26 Replies • 9150 Views