How do you choose your friends? A little off topic for BDSM

Good question.
To be a friend we have to share common interests and common politics.

They have to understand that my time is limited, My beloved takes priority, and my head injury means I forge ...

Sat Nov 30, 2019 8:59 am • 3 Replies • 3121 Views

Gift for Someone New to Rope

Rope.
Medical scissors.

And private lessons from a friend.

Sat Nov 30, 2019 8:45 am • 11 Replies • 7346 Views

Is it wrong?

Yes. It is wrong.

If you have not negotiated then you have no right to ask.

Secondly - you are asking someone to do this when they have no idea what the act means.

Third- they are bra ...

Sat Nov 30, 2019 8:44 am • 8 Replies • 4320 Views

The plight of being slight

Actually- interestingly enough people of size go through something like this as do people of color.

People of size are often thought to be "not as sensative " as our smaller counterparts. As if o ...

Sat Nov 30, 2019 8:29 am • 5 Replies • 3783 Views

Kink terms...

It is magical animal play .

We have a unicorn here.

Fri Nov 29, 2019 7:52 pm • 20 Replies • 16184 Views

Sub trying to understand dom/mes

Why are you a Dom/me?


It isnt something I choose. It was something that chose me. When I finally understood BDSM power exchange Dynamics and concepts of identity it was like I fell into something ...

Wed Nov 27, 2019 7:10 pm • 8 Replies • 5213 Views

Best couple ever, not fully compatible in BDSM

What leads me to this conclusion that with the differences of identities you all need to look at open or look at ending it is because of this quote from your post

I''d love to make him happy... but ...

Wed Nov 27, 2019 7:03 pm • 6 Replies • 3229 Views

Best couple ever, not fully compatible in BDSM

Ultimately what you're talking about is a conflict of identity here. He is a Master that from your writing seems to be looking wanting a slave.


You are either one- not slave identify or two - no ...

Wed Nov 27, 2019 6:51 pm • 6 Replies • 3229 Views

Best couple ever, not fully compatible in BDSM

I have a lot of questions here. But my first is what is a level of BDSM?

Wed Nov 27, 2019 6:40 pm • 6 Replies • 3229 Views

Submissive Needy VS The Takers

I agree we all are. The difference for me is how much the other person attempts to make their emotions your responsibility.

When I was very first with beloved there was this amazing class in Flori ...

Wed Nov 27, 2019 6:39 pm • 8 Replies • 4300 Views