Mind Play

Would you explain further what you think mind play is?

Sat Oct 26, 2019 5:11 pm • 55 Replies • 27464 Views

Couple new to bdsm. Best way to learn

Hello and welcome!

Have you found your local community?

Thats one of the best ways to get your feet wet.

Fri Oct 25, 2019 6:34 am • 3 Replies • 2707 Views

Sub space

If I may ask what happens during your come down ?

Mon Oct 21, 2019 5:07 am • 2 Replies • 2679 Views

I may be a little ???

May I ask why you dont like this need?

Mon Oct 21, 2019 5:06 am • 6 Replies • 3973 Views

Just cureas.

First. They are vetted.
Extensively.
Then when they get bored they stop talking.
So, first real request isnt neccessary.

If they make it through vetting.

Then I work off of their list of ...

Sun Oct 20, 2019 9:30 am • 14 Replies • 6845 Views

Submissive Needy VS The Takers

I have experienced play with bottomless pits. Never again.

Needy doesnt work with me. Especially when---- not if-- when---- emotional manipulation occurs to get the need met.

That being said ...

Sun Oct 20, 2019 9:27 am • 8 Replies • 4302 Views

Advice?

Be careful about making excuses for lack of conversation.

He may have grown up differently, but he is an adult now. Playing adult games.

Him not showing you his results is concerming to me. ...

Sun Oct 20, 2019 9:24 am • 13 Replies • 7559 Views

How do you handle conflict in your dynamic?

Love the post.


We handle conflict like adults.
We take time outs.
We focus on hearing the other person.
We repeat back what we are hearing.
We focus on the root and not the noise.

My ...

Sat Oct 19, 2019 2:18 pm • 7 Replies • 3647 Views

Routines

I cant meditate.
Tried and failed through most of my life.

I would consider
1) sexting the day of play
2) routine would be :
Bathe with a special soap that your D type picks
...

Sat Oct 19, 2019 2:07 pm • 9 Replies • 6571 Views

Inexperienced submissives

It doesnt matter to me.
To me, drive to learn, insight, and ability to communicate are much more important then if a person has experience or not.

Sat Oct 19, 2019 1:56 pm • 21 Replies • 10792 Views