Punishment

My rules for punishment are:

It cant take ANY of my time , effort, or energy. Otherwise it becomes my punishment to.

It can't make me feel icky. Otherwise it becomes my punishment to.

I ...

Sun Mar 29, 2020 9:05 pm • 17 Replies • 21228 Views

Spanked to tears

I love a solid cathartic scene.

Let it out.

Sun Mar 29, 2020 8:53 pm • 16 Replies • 14612 Views

#Thankyoueveryoneservingthefrontline-coronavirus

I work the covid unit.

I want to say thank you to everyone who is keeping social distancing and understanding that everyone deserves toilet paper.

Sun Mar 29, 2020 8:52 pm • 3 Replies • 2595 Views

Dominance and Submission, (with apologies to Blue Oyster Cult) :)

For me it is that simple.
No a D or M type should not attempt to dominate everyone . That is non consensual.


You are allowed to dominate ONLY those that you have negotiated with.

No an s t ...

Sun Mar 29, 2020 8:49 pm • 10 Replies • 5366 Views

How to let someone know they aren't your type?

Repeat after me

" I am flattered but your not my type"

Sun Mar 29, 2020 8:45 pm • 21 Replies • 10473 Views

What if he's not into BDSM?

You cant make him into something that he is not.
Attempting to will only cause resentment and undermine the relationship as a whole.

Sun Mar 29, 2020 8:43 pm • 33 Replies • 12493 Views

Help! my dungeon is to loud I need ear coverage.

Ear plugs only cut some noise.
I have the same problem with the crapfest they call music.

Depending on how I feel- I ask them to turn it down.

Tue Mar 17, 2020 1:09 am • 12 Replies • 7618 Views

Tips for new Dominants (potentially)?

See if these help:


https://yourkinkyfriends.com/2018/06/29/livingms/


https://yourkinkyfriends.com/2018/07/08/living-m-s-24-7-part-two-by-master-bear/

Wed Mar 11, 2020 3:05 pm • 8 Replies • 7613 Views

Collared

For me I treated a collar like a wedding ring.
It has the same symbolism. It took the same amount of work. And took the same amount of time.

Wed Mar 11, 2020 3:03 pm • 20 Replies • 10675 Views

Very First Threesome

The important part is to sit down before the event occurs and negotiate with your partner what are your needs.

Do you need to see testing before you atart? If so how long ago are testing results o ...

Wed Mar 11, 2020 3:01 pm • 7 Replies • 3613 Views