Does anyone on here use BDSM as a way of processing sexual assault?

This is such an amazingquestion

Sun Nov 11, 2018 8:22 pm • 25 Replies • 11511 Views

First kink club/party

Hello!

I organize play parties once a month. I teach a play Party 101 class. And I've been organizing in my community for 15 years. Just in case you're wondering where this advice is coming from.
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Sun Nov 11, 2018 8:21 pm • 9 Replies • 5024 Views

New to the scene trying to understand my place

Recognize that it is going to take time to find your place.

Sometimes years.

Keep talking.

Ask EVERY question.

Find your local community.
And the biggest thing ---- LAUGH

HAVE FUN

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Sun Nov 11, 2018 8:08 pm • 9 Replies • 6457 Views

Questions...first munch/play party

Wear street legal.

That's safe access the board.

It is ok and oftentimes encouraged to watch play.

Dont interrupt the scene.
Dont interrupt the aftercare.

If you have questions the DM is ...

Sun Nov 11, 2018 8:05 pm • 5 Replies • 3192 Views

What's your go to play?

They arent my pets.

But I suppose so.

I will occassionally take up a leash or reins.

Thu Nov 08, 2018 7:40 am • 8 Replies • 4001 Views

Help!! I'm new and lost lol

Hello!!!


I have done a series of writings for newbies.
This is specifically for M/s, but the same applies to D/s.



http://yourkinkyfriends.com/2018/06/29/livingms/



http://yourkinkyf ...

Thu Nov 08, 2018 5:16 am • 7 Replies • 4208 Views

Book Review

I like Easton because she addresses different ability levels.

Wed Nov 07, 2018 4:29 pm • 28 Replies • 14546 Views

My babygirl

Your initial conversations need to have equal footing.

What are your plans if you tie her up and then she freaks out?

Wed Nov 07, 2018 4:24 pm • 6 Replies • 9725 Views

Female Daddy-Dom

Hello!
Daddy Dommes are numerous in Albuquerque.

We have a lot of gender fluidity here.

How you define in BDSM must support your sexual center.


I call it your connection to Dominance.
W ...

Wed Nov 07, 2018 4:22 pm • 7 Replies • 10423 Views

Looking for a mentor/teacher

If I may ask- what skills do you have?

Wed Nov 07, 2018 4:19 pm • 3 Replies • 7009 Views