Tasks (Non sexual)

I have always loved journaling or writing little erotica/romantic scenes for my dom. One thing I have enjoyed in the past was sending photos of what I eat (I tend to skip meals and it was his way of h ...

Fri Aug 02, 2019 7:58 am • 9 Replies • 14828 Views

THE CAGE Kink Questionnaire...

My favourite fetish?
- Master/slave... Female orgasm control...to name the main ones

My favourite qualities in a dominant?
- Compassionate, controlled, protective

My favourite qualities in a ...

Sun Jul 28, 2019 9:41 am • 31 Replies • 23811 Views

BDSM: Best Advice You've Received?

"there will always be another opportunity"

Aka, don't do it unless it feels like the perfect fit. Quality over quantity.

Tue Nov 13, 2018 11:52 am • 34 Replies • 16051 Views

First kink club/party

Hi folks!

It's Ivy again, calling on advice for my first get/kink event ?

(This is somewhere that has been recommended to me over and over from connections in local munches; done my research, kn ...

Thu Nov 08, 2018 5:07 pm • 9 Replies • 5380 Views

Mentoring New subs

I think this may be the crux of the different perspectives:

I don't know that many of us see the Cage as a "dating site." There are personal ads, sure, but I think there's a good portion of people ...

Sat Oct 27, 2018 9:55 am • 39 Replies • 21613 Views

Mentoring New subs

Sorry, but in the earlier stages of discovery, mentors should be peers. Many newbies that I talk to ask about emotions or situations. I can answer honestly from similar experiences. They have so ...

Wed Oct 24, 2018 3:24 pm • 39 Replies • 21613 Views

Cyber/solo-sub/dom-space/drop??¿

That makes a lot of sense, thank you.

Yeahhhh. It's equally my fault though, because I hadn't taken his suggestions (for aftercare) seriously-- or even known drop could be a risk in OL play.... Wh ...

Fri Oct 19, 2018 10:43 pm • 9 Replies • 5684 Views

Cyber/solo-sub/dom-space/drop??¿

Thanks Kara x

I was hoping that wasn't it, but... C'est la vie

What helps (other than water and chocolate) for the "long distance" aftercare?

Fri Oct 19, 2018 8:17 pm • 9 Replies • 5684 Views

Cyber/solo-sub/dom-space/drop??¿

Soooo

Is it possible to experience sub(or dom(me)) space/drop when playing by yourself? Obviously I can't spank myself or do anything that's needs a partner... But I've been doing a lot of orgasm c ...

Fri Oct 19, 2018 6:58 pm • 9 Replies • 5684 Views

Nipples!

Question for those experienced:

I had a v painful (not in a good way) experience with clothes pins that had some consequences.....but I want to eventually try nipple play again.

Can any of you ...

Wed Oct 10, 2018 12:39 am • 23 Replies • 15424 Views