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Punishments

Well here's the problem. We can all list off a hundred ideas and they will all be some combination of clever, sadistic, and potentially entertaining but that is not going to help you.

A punishment ...

Fri Mar 19, 2021 8:58 pm • 19 Replies • 9566 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Punishments

How do I learn to stop being needy?

As for my two cents there is a difference between being needy (which is not a bad thing) and clingy (which is a bad thing as it shows obsessive fixation).

Everyone of us has a need for human intera ...

Fri Mar 19, 2021 1:49 pm • 12 Replies • 6124 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

How do I learn to stop being needy?

Why does it hurts?

Yes he is. Good for you.

No one can control you if you don't let them you're right. He only had the power you gave him and now you have it back so it is as if he doesn't exist. You can move on. ...

Tue Mar 16, 2021 3:53 pm • 11 Replies • 6748 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Why does it hurts?

The problem is we are not rational beings. You know he played with you, made you care, and then discarded you when he got bored. None of that knowledge helps because you were invested on some level. ...

Tue Mar 16, 2021 3:31 pm • 11 Replies • 6748 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Why does it hurts?

Question About Silicone Nipple Suckers

No problem Cupcake. Sometimes experiments go wrong, it happens to everyone. My worst one involved knife play and a handful of stitches across my shoulder.

Though I was thinking about your issue a ...

Tue Mar 16, 2021 3:20 pm • 12 Replies • 6482 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Question About Silicone Nipple Suckers

Just guessing in the dark here.

1) You're creating a vacuum by displacing overly much air in the suction part. That is either bursting the blood vessels underneath your skin or tearing the skin i ...

Mon Mar 15, 2021 6:11 am • 12 Replies • 6482 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Question About Silicone Nipple Suckers

Self Pleasure

The only advice I can offer is sometimes things are easier done when you don't set out to do them. (Yes that sounded just as dumb in my head) In essence if you set out to do something, in this case ...

Sun Mar 14, 2021 4:46 pm • 17 Replies • 7253 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Self Pleasure

Real Life, Online or Both?

I have done both and can see why some prefer one and some prefer the other.

For me though nothing can replace physical contact. No essay, skype call, or phone call can replace the feel of someone' ...

Wed Mar 10, 2021 8:45 pm • 36 Replies • 12622 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Real Life, Online or Both?

Differences between kink and lifestyle

I suppose the easiest way is to see if they are using you to act out their desires or if they are interested in how your desires intertwine with theirs.

Not that it is a simple thing to tell. Some ...

Wed Mar 10, 2021 8:34 pm • 22 Replies • 10753 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Differences between kink and lifestyle

Dom Bashing.

While I would never attribute such an underhanded approach to anyone else I have heard rumors that some people will commiserate loudly about the failings of others in an attempt to place themselves ne ...

Wed Mar 10, 2021 8:20 pm • 10 Replies • 6080 Views

Author

Zedland

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Dom Bashing.