BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

To me, punishment is not discipline.

I never look at my masochist tendencies as an "I will only get this if I am bad" because yes, I never try to be bad... it just kind of happens when it does... ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 4:33 pm • 43 Replies • 9177 Views

Dollification

Doll, or Toy is something very appealing to me.

Not so much to the point of plastic surgery, but I love being posed, positioned and manipulated. Some of the best sex I have is when I am bound and ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 4:19 pm • 4 Replies • 2025 Views

Looking for advice from doms and subs

I think it is nice you two had a follow up conversation! Debriefing is important.

One thing to note is that it is part of a Dom's job to push your boundaries. There is a difference between I am sc ...

Sat Sep 26, 2020 9:05 pm • 32 Replies • 7831 Views

Age Gap

This has always been a struggle for me. Like a lot here, I was never into the partying. I was also in a 12 year relationship from the age of 15. It was vanilla, a little abusive, it is in the past. Bu ...

Sat Sep 26, 2020 6:07 pm • 34 Replies • 8022 Views

I gave a situation...i need,advice

Please don't take the risk. No visual, not first meeting. It is not the cost (toys can be expensive and having your own set is nice) but not on a first date. Offer to buy your own and bring some with ...

Thu Sep 24, 2020 6:22 am • 26 Replies • 5063 Views

ISO Submissive Meditation to start my day?

Meditation isn't all about submitting to your dom. I use meditation to bring me back to center. If I know I have a hard day coming up, or I know there is a specific scene or request my Dom has set me ...

Thu Sep 24, 2020 5:09 am • 15 Replies • 6021 Views

Do you submit freely or are you freed to submit

Fun topic! Love the insight everyone, and I definitely love seeing how the other side thinks. I am a TPE, which means I will never deny a direct order. Don't get me wrong, it has created some very laz ...

Thu Sep 24, 2020 4:38 am • 19 Replies • 4761 Views

Point seen.

That's not to say you should wave it around either. Just, you know, treat it like it's no big deal. If things are already established with your partner then it shouldn't be an issue.

I agree. This ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 9:29 pm • 30 Replies • 10227 Views

My Sub talking to her old online dom

Wait, your response to me is to just copy what I said, with nothing but a statement line. Then allow me to elaborate.

I did read it. I have been there, though I can't speak for her, that is not hi ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 7:42 pm • 30 Replies • 10227 Views

My Sub talking to her old online dom

It is interesting to see peoples responses. Seems she was open with you. Sometimes I dont feel relevance announcing to the world what I am doing. If someone texts me, and there is no ill intention, I ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 6:56 pm • 30 Replies • 10227 Views