Is it Ghosting when ....

Not ghosting but just wasting your time. If you have to ask twice then you need to wonder if it is worth it. I ask once and if no answer I think about it and ask a second time there is no third strike ...

Wed May 11, 2022 10:55 pm • 34 Replies • 6658 Views

Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

Personally, I run with them. I let them play out and change things up. I know they will never happen, but I know I will never captain a battleship but still the fantasy is there. As long as you unders ...

Wed May 11, 2022 10:49 pm • 34 Replies • 11094 Views

Song that describes you or your feelings

Here I Go Again

Fri Mar 18, 2022 11:10 pm • 362 Replies • 63635 Views

is it possible to overcome devastation

It takes time and it takes healing in more than one form. She was taken from me before I got the answer to .... well, the big question. It took time but you know it was real when even after 30 yrs she ...

Tue Feb 22, 2022 6:42 am • 6 Replies • 1311 Views

INSTA._________ WTF???

Being new is great and curiosity did not always kill the cat, but the cat learned from it. Jumping into the pool is great as long as you know how to swim, or you know how tall you are. If you 12' 3" y ...

Sun Feb 20, 2022 3:05 am • 16 Replies • 3869 Views

Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

It is legal to talk about it with other adults as long as you know they are over 18. Most times it is a good thing to get it out and talk about it. I am living proof of that. Talking about it and doin ...

Mon Feb 07, 2022 9:40 am • 34 Replies • 11094 Views

You're a Dom... but are you really?

Let's be honest in the almost two years I have been here I have only given advise to subs who talked to me. Simply because the younger "Doms" don't ask. When I have offered advice, they have told me t ...

Fri Jan 28, 2022 4:38 am • 57 Replies • 12977 Views

Is Being a Submissive Daddy a Thing?

LMAO I can tell you never had girls of your own. Yes, and most dads will tell you it comes with the territory. I know we are talking about two different things but in a sense, they are the same. Let o ...

Wed Jan 26, 2022 3:27 am • 11 Replies • 5303 Views

Profile pictures, smiles anyone

I have been told many times I needs a profile picture but what can you do when you ask someone to take a picture of you, they tend to run away screaming? Oh well.

Tue Jan 25, 2022 6:03 am • 20 Replies • 4777 Views

Opinion needed

For legal purposes this is just me talking and I can't say anything about any other Dom. I do not understand men these days. We are all looking for something and when we find it, we don't commit, or w ...

Mon Jan 24, 2022 3:13 am • 12 Replies • 3725 Views