submissive mindset

When I had first started with my wife she seemed to have trouble switching between roles. She seemed to love her metal collar with the small ring to which I suggested using charms to hang from said ri ...

Fri Mar 19, 2021 1:08 am • 24 Replies • 9201 Views

How do I learn to stop being needy?

It's common for ppl to be needy, but such as to attention based within relations is common. It happens to often that ppl get ghosted, but life happens and such isnt always the case. It poses the quest ...

Thu Mar 18, 2021 10:28 pm • 12 Replies • 3985 Views

Pre- meet payments

Escorts and fin-doms, but that's it. If it ain't either of those you're being taken for a financial ride and when shes had her fun then shes done n you're gone

Thu Mar 18, 2021 1:51 am • 7 Replies • 2178 Views

How to take orders

As much as I'd probably enjoy punishing you it's not a punishment if you enjoy it, but yea a punishment may be in order. Or you just need either someone you love or someone that inspires you through l ...

Thu Mar 18, 2021 12:47 am • 5 Replies • 2657 Views

A slave’s life (realistically)

Just do what you're told. It's really that simple, but first think of the worst thing in the world youd ever want to do and consider if youd be able to do it when ordered to. It's not always that bad, ...

Thu Mar 18, 2021 12:08 am • 11 Replies • 5114 Views

Help! Got kids?

Simply put- everyone needs their individual ti e to 'do their thing'. This means it's not seen by the kid while the other one watches him.

Thu Mar 18, 2021 12:06 am • 8 Replies • 2956 Views

24/7 now I think

If you dont feel empowered through your acts of servitude there are ways of gaining it outside of D/s, but within it becomes questionable of how you might get it by what you enjoy

Wed Mar 17, 2021 2:31 am • 7 Replies • 2738 Views

The mirror test

Depending on the situation I treat others as I wish to be treated and care nothing for the opinion of others as the only opinion that truely matters about myself is my own.

Tue Mar 16, 2021 10:24 pm • 3 Replies • 1818 Views

What do you actually *do* in your lifestyle?

My wife was abused by a former 'Master' in every way imaginable. You could see she was visibly shaken, quite nervous, and extremely anxious to find someone totally different. I simply told her that un ...

Tue Mar 16, 2021 10:21 pm • 25 Replies • 9193 Views

What do you think about Japanese kinky?

If they dont accept you for who you are it's their loss

Mon Mar 15, 2021 2:46 pm • 13 Replies • 4775 Views