The BDSM Test: Is it Useful To You?

I have all potential new subs take it as a way to see what they are looking for.

It's not the be all end all and it is not perfect.

What it does that I like is it that it puts what the taker thi ...

Sat Jan 19, 2019 12:24 am • 36 Replies • 19994 Views

Wearable Remote Control Vibrator

I used the WeVibe with a sub over long distances (different states).

We didn't use it secured in her underwear and we found the connection to the internet via wifi sketchy at best.

A good 80% ...

Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:02 am • 5 Replies • 5372 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I've always been a fan of independent film and being from Colorado it meant a lot to me when local dudes Trey Parker and Matt Stone made Alferd Packer the Musical (later renamed "Cannibal the Musical ...

Tue Oct 09, 2018 4:01 am • 267 Replies • 132948 Views

I feel so awful for not having a Daddy..

Have you tried going to munches in your area? I think that would be a good thing for you to try. When you go don't look for a Daddy Dom right away. Find out about the local community and people in you ...

Thu Sep 06, 2018 5:31 am • 23 Replies • 16899 Views

Personal Ad revision time period?

This site is run by Evageline and CageMonkey as soon as they get a chance they will review and probably approve your ad.

In my experience it takes a day or less for them to get back to you. Even q ...

Fri Jul 20, 2018 6:11 am • 2 Replies • 3847 Views

Questions about what to expect?

From your profile it looks like you already have a boyfriend who will be your Dom.

If you are both new to this, TheCage is a great place to ask questions, get advise and learn.

There really is n ...

Tue Jul 10, 2018 3:42 am • 3 Replies • 4687 Views

Suggestion Thread

When attempting to bounce a personal ad less than 24 hours after the previous bounce or initial listing a red error message appears letting you know that it has been less than 24 hours.

It would b ...

Sat Jun 23, 2018 3:46 am • 218 Replies • 115508 Views

Refusal to Negotiate in D/s

Very well put MstrSol. I would add the acronym SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual).

When a slave or sub is serving a Master or Dom (or Domme) There are things that must be discussed. One of those is lim ...

Sun Feb 18, 2018 3:42 am • 14 Replies • 17490 Views

use of a "electric dog collar" to control submissive

@LostHeart - That sounds like a compelling fantasy but in the real world the downside potential is a great risk (especially if there are medical issues you or your subject are unaware of). You might b ...

Fri Aug 18, 2017 4:42 am • 56 Replies • 65787 Views

Trying It On Yourself

You never know how something will affect someone psychologicaly (though knowing the person and their history can give you a better sense) but trying some implements on yourself can help you judge how ...

Mon Apr 10, 2017 6:45 pm • 10 Replies • 14636 Views