Dungeon/Toys After Death

Luckily at least one of my siblings and his wife are open minded and we've discussed my kink side and theirs, after my brother was house sitting and found the closet with my kink stuff in it. He know ...

Sun Mar 17, 2024 7:22 pm • 23 Replies • 2511 Views

Rules for fighting

In my opinion, there should be enough respect and trust between both parties that fighting fair does not have to be an issue.

However, I can and have seen and felt the dilemma where as a submissi ...

Fri Aug 26, 2022 7:34 pm • 6 Replies • 1584 Views

Advice

Talk to other submissives.

Read the blogs and the forums on here,l and the magazine articles, there is a lot of good information there. If you read something that doesn't sound appealing, rememb ...

Thu Aug 25, 2022 4:41 pm • 28 Replies • 5925 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

What makes me ignore messages...

"Hi, I read you profile, I know you're not into guys, but I still think we could be a good match" from a guy.

Hello, my profile says no guys!! And you can't res ...

Thu Aug 25, 2022 4:25 pm • 119 Replies • 31269 Views

3 Kinks

Yes... Impact play, nipple play, bondage!

Wed Aug 10, 2022 4:09 pm • 5 Replies • 1543 Views

Re-evaluation

Absolutely.... YES!!!!

In my opinion, the needs you have in any relationship should be met, vanilla, BDSM OR a combo of both. I know for me, my relationships are a mixture of vanilla and BDSM... I ...

Wed Aug 10, 2022 4:05 pm • 3 Replies • 1109 Views

LIMITS as stated in your profile

Hello,

For me, those hard limits will never change, I know I would never want those things in a relationship, which is why they became my hard limits. There are plenty of other ways to grow over t ...

Wed Aug 10, 2022 3:59 pm • 39 Replies • 6977 Views

Question about Dom limits

It depends on what has been negotiated between you and your submissive. If it was stated that they are solely your then it should not be happening. I've been in dynamics where I was allowed to "play ...

Wed Aug 10, 2022 1:11 am • 12 Replies • 3495 Views

Tantra chair build

It would depend on the material being used, but incorporate them into some type of design along the bottom of the chair, like decoration.

Or if your chair has "feet" you can attach anchor points un ...

Wed Jul 27, 2022 8:53 pm • 1 Replies • 1209 Views

Looking for community

Hi,

I was taking a little break from this site and missed you post when it first went up. But yes, I think it is important for us in the LQBTQIA+ community on here to virtually meet each other and ...

Tue Jul 26, 2022 2:50 am • 13 Replies • 4624 Views