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1621

Male Dominants & Misogyny

@Sgt_J that's a provocative comment. I wonder if others agree. Thanks for chiming in!

Thu May 12, 2016 8:26 pm • 3 Replies • 7013 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Male Dominants & Misogyny

1622

Trying It On Yourself

It's hard to gauge the impact of your implements if you've never experienced what they can do, right? But does that matter to you? Dominants, do you have a policy of testing your toys on yourself fir ...

Thu May 12, 2016 11:16 am • 10 Replies • 15505 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Equipment & Toys

Topic

Trying It On Yourself

1623

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

Thanks for your comment @MasterWitch - great distinctions and explanation of how you view it.

Fri Apr 29, 2016 12:55 pm • 18 Replies • 26999 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

1624

So You're Going To Meet Someone New For A Bit Of Casual Play

Thanks for the thoughtful response! I agree that getting angry or frustrated when things don't go their way is a massive red flag.

And yeah, as thrilling as new experiences can be, hopefully non ...

Wed Apr 27, 2016 12:46 pm • 3 Replies • 7642 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Fetish

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So You're Going To Meet Someone New For A Bit Of Casual Play

1625

Public Or Precious: Sharing Your Play In A Public Forum

How do you feel about public play with your partner? Are you an exhibitionist? Maybe you feed off the energy of a group? Or is iyour play too precious, to private to share with others?

Mon Apr 25, 2016 2:34 pm • 1 Replies • 5154 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Public Or Precious: Sharing Your Play In A Public Forum

1626

D/s & Co-Dependency

While discussing definitions of BDSM lifestyle in another thread, we touched on the intensity required to maintain a 24/7 D/s dynamic. How do you keep mentally fit, remain autonomous, and not develop ...

Sun Apr 24, 2016 12:35 pm • 0 Replies • 5501 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

Topic

D/s & Co-Dependency

1627

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

Yeah Rod, I'd agree about the different definitions. As far as actually living D/s 24/7, I imagine both you and your partner would have to be incredibly mentally fit to manage it without damaging you ...

Sun Apr 24, 2016 12:19 pm • 18 Replies • 26999 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

1628

Ideas to try to encourage my Wife to be more Domme

I just came across this article from Carasutra you may find interesting. And surprising.

http://carasutra.co.uk/2016/04/how-do-you-get-your-partner-to-dominate-you/

Fri Apr 22, 2016 12:34 pm • 12 Replies • 47601 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Ideas to try to encourage my Wife to be more Domme

1629

Caged In By Stereotypes

So I just came across this article that focuses on stereotypes about what us kinky people like to wear:

https://kinkcraft.co/2016/03/bdsm-black-leather/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=twitt ...

Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:14 pm • 3 Replies • 6787 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Caged In By Stereotypes

1630

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

I've always thought that the idea of a whole lifestyle centered around your kink was a bit fantastical. I mean, you don't eat your breakfast on a latex covered tablecloth and sit on bondage horses, d ...

Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:07 pm • 18 Replies • 26999 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?