Please help: what the hell am I?

There is no “should”. Tell your friend to worry about their own selves and not worry about whatever label you put on yourself. There’s no right or wrong. Whatever makes you feel most comfortable and m ...

Thu May 23, 2019 8:42 pm • 13 Replies • 5716 Views

sub corner.

“Has any sub ever been naughty or broken a rule on purpose to get a rise out of their Dom ? If so why ?”

Yes. Because I’m a masochist and want to be punished *shrug*. I don’t really do this with my ...

Thu May 23, 2019 7:05 pm • 46 Replies • 19889 Views

sub corner.

This is totally random from the above but I was just looking at profiles and it made me think of this.... do any of you other subs get put off by Doms who are say 30 years old but claim to have “15 ye ...

Thu May 23, 2019 5:17 pm • 46 Replies • 19889 Views

Need advice on building healthy dynamic

Oh, honey. I can relate to you on so many levels.

If you were to read my journal entries on days I’m coping with drop vs normal days, you’d think I was in two different relationships. So I can ful ...

Thu May 23, 2019 4:55 pm • 13 Replies • 5168 Views

Love maybe?

Thanks for taking the time to respond. I have a clearer picture now of what your dynamic looks like. I’m very happy for you both that you’ve found a happy solution to meet both of your needs. It takes ...

Tue May 21, 2019 8:05 pm • 4 Replies • 3053 Views

Love maybe?

Interesting. I’m always curious to learn about other dynamics and even more curious to learn the “why” behind the dynamic.

When you say, “I know I can't be the prey he needs, because I can't be di ...

Tue May 21, 2019 2:16 am • 4 Replies • 3053 Views

V or Triangle?

I couldn’t sustain either but if I had to choose it would be the V with me being the connection between my Sir and a female. I couldn’t tolerate the sight or even thought of him with someone else, and ...

Sat May 18, 2019 6:16 pm • 38 Replies • 11799 Views

Erotica in Blogs?

@kinkatheart it shouldn’t. I think it’s just how you have your privacy settings set. Yours is set to only allow messages from premium users. But maybe I’m wrong *shrug* Regardless, I sent him the list ...

Fri May 17, 2019 12:18 am • 15 Replies • 5263 Views

Erotica in Blogs?

@kinkyatheart I’m not a premium user so I don’t have the capability to direct message you based on your profile settings. However, I can ask my Sir to forward the list as he’s a premium user if that’s ...

Thu May 16, 2019 9:20 pm • 15 Replies • 5263 Views

D/s and M/s contracts

My Dom and I don’t have a contract (and I am not collared) but we have been exclusive for over 6 months and have plans for the future. I think a contract would help me because I have a hard time follo ...

Thu May 16, 2019 6:22 pm • 20 Replies • 11210 Views