Trust

There are many factors that go into it but primarily trust is built from consistency. If you say you’re going to do something, do it. If you offer something, give it. If you say you need something, do ...

Sun Mar 10, 2019 11:18 pm • 16 Replies • 9248 Views

Forniphilia

I’ve never participated in forniphilia (well not outside of short spurts in scene) and it isn’t something that really calls to my submissive soul, but it’s also not a hard limit for me. I have seen ma ...

Thu Mar 07, 2019 5:17 pm • 2 Replies • 2842 Views

new

There are many here who’d be happy and willing to help. My Sir and I are always willing to answer any questions you may have. He can give you insight from his experience as a Dom and I can give you a ...

Thu Mar 07, 2019 5:05 pm • 9 Replies • 3938 Views

Getting your Sub a surprise Tattoo

After all your years together I’m sure you know her well enough to know if she really wants to have the tattoo done or if it’s just something she’d theoretically like.

If the answer is that she rea ...

Thu Mar 07, 2019 5:03 pm • 18 Replies • 8367 Views

Collared

I think saying you’re “collared” is a specific commitment that has been made between D and s. If you haven’t had that specific conversation with your D then you aren’t collared. It’s similar to gettin ...

Sat Mar 02, 2019 9:21 pm • 4 Replies • 3809 Views

What does high protocol mean to you?

I consider high protocol to be very restrictive. Things like complete silence unless directly spoken to, walking behind your Dom, sitting or kneeling in a specific way, referring to your Dom by one gi ...

Sat Mar 02, 2019 9:16 pm • 13 Replies • 13376 Views

What are your fetishes?

It’s my understanding that a fetish is something you need/require for sexual gratification, kinks are the things that you enjoy but aren’t absolutely necessary.

With that understanding my only feti ...

Sat Mar 02, 2019 5:07 am • 75 Replies • 43612 Views

"Trophies" Not like Serial Killer Stuff - LOL

Do not worry! If she loves them, then instead of guilt, you may want to plan on how you can leave more.

I LOVE when Sir marks me. In fact, I get really emotional when the marks start to fade and I ...

Sat Mar 02, 2019 4:47 am • 21 Replies • 9772 Views

Spanked to tears

Mr. Bond (*smirk*) is right, which I know better than most is not an uncommon occurrence.

I’d be careful with a self proclaimed Sadist though. They may not spank you simply for the fact that they k ...

Tue Feb 26, 2019 4:17 pm • 16 Replies • 11909 Views

Real Time and Online : What's your prefence and why?

I also don’t understand online only D/s relationships. Friendships I can fully comprehend, but online submission is something I just can’t grasp. I’ve seen others have this dynamic and find it gratify ...

Mon Feb 25, 2019 7:13 pm • 70 Replies • 35044 Views