The Terms "Dominant" and "Submissive" seem to be relative, but not absolute, ter

Personally I cannot say I agree with this idea. I am exclusively a Top and have no interest in being submissive at all, no matter how attracted I am to a partner. In fact, a partner not being a submis ...

Fri Jul 05, 2019 6:21 pm • 6 Replies • 3663 Views

THE CAGE Kink Questionnaire...

Not sure all of it makes sense, but ...

What is your favourite fetish?

- Female genital torture.

What are your favourite qualities in a dominant?

- Calm and concern for the welfare of th ...

Sat Jun 15, 2019 3:55 pm • 31 Replies • 22159 Views

Sadistic Practices

I'm a sexual sadist. My preference is for genital torture. Since I've never had a partner who was into more extreme forms of play such as cutting and the like, I suppose what I do may be considered ta ...

Tue May 07, 2019 6:58 pm • 4 Replies • 4426 Views

Bum play & impotence

Does simply having your anus touched affect your erection?

Perhaps you might try having your partner touch and caress you there with the understanding that there will be no penetration. See how tha ...

Sat Apr 27, 2019 4:57 pm • 10 Replies • 8261 Views

Confidence

A big part of confidence is knowing what you want to do and how you plan to do it.

Work at it one thing at a time. Think of a single thing you would like to do, or have done to/for you. It can be a ...

Sat Apr 27, 2019 4:48 pm • 4 Replies • 3429 Views

Eclipse

There is nothing wrong with wanting to find a Dom who can maintain his dominance over you. And yes, I would hope that all subs are only submissive ultimately because they want it and allow it to happe ...

Sun Apr 21, 2019 4:04 pm • 12 Replies • 8677 Views

Is it weird to have a wedgie fetish?

Perhaps because wedgies are a school yard trope and reminds them of either bullying or humour rather than any kind of sexual activity.

Perhaps if you explain the intended effect rather than using t ...

Sat Apr 20, 2019 6:14 pm • 10 Replies • 13616 Views

Eclipse

Eclipsing in what way? A little explanation might help others answer in a useful manner.

Sat Apr 20, 2019 6:10 pm • 12 Replies • 8677 Views

Is it weird to have a wedgie fetish?

Nothing is weird if you can find someone who shares it. If no one at all shares it, then you're still not weird, but perhaps doomed to be disappointed.

Good luck with the wedgies.

Fri Apr 19, 2019 5:39 pm • 10 Replies • 13616 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

I am definitely not a "lifestyle" Dom. I don't need to be called Sir or Master or anything else, especially not at the "getting to know you" stage.

When we first meet, I expect nothing more than or ...

Fri Apr 19, 2019 5:35 pm • 42 Replies • 24047 Views