What do you do when someone ghosts you

Thats what I hate about this sort of situation. It has a way of getting in your head and making you feel shitty even when you arent close to knowing if youve actually done something wrong

Wed Jun 05, 2019 6:53 am • 8 Replies • 3729 Views

What do you do when someone ghosts you

We’ve all been there. You find someone, you hit them up, decide you like them, then you start flirting, they start flirting back, etc etc, and then somewhere down the line, out of nowhere, that person ...

Wed Jun 05, 2019 4:49 am • 8 Replies • 3729 Views

On the subject of safewords & punishments

Remember what safewords are for. Theyre supposed to be used by the sub when theyre at their limit. For example, if I as a dom were spanking my sub and I hit them so hard they start bleeding, and the p ...

Sat Jun 01, 2019 4:04 am • 13 Replies • 10247 Views

favorite rope bondage

What is your favorite position or positions to use rope with?
Tutorials and suggestions are appreciated. Thanks!

Thu May 30, 2019 8:31 pm • 8 Replies • 4006 Views

Re: Confused sub

there are times when I try to figure out how to help a certain position work or try to adjust.
Can you elaborate on this? It sounds like your dom is simply trying positions you don’t like. Remembe ...

Thu May 30, 2019 8:28 pm • 12 Replies • 6460 Views

Nudes for dudes?

for someone to get such severe ptsd, youre definitely in the right to refuse nudes for your dom. Youd need to have a VERY serious emotional connection with a dom before you should even consider it. Nu ...

Thu May 30, 2019 5:45 pm • 28 Replies • 17691 Views

Eye Contact

Allowing or not allowing eye contact can both work in context of a sub/dom relationship

Thu May 30, 2019 1:00 am • 9 Replies • 3954 Views

Permission

Lets not be judgemental.
The right to talk to strangers is simply another thing a sub can give to their dom. If the dom demands it and the sub refuses, then either they compromise or they dont do it ...

Tue May 28, 2019 3:49 pm • 34 Replies • 19419 Views

making new friends in a new state

well, dating apps or websites can help you to introduce yourself. Surprising amounts of people are completely content there and simply wish to meet new people. You can also try attending events based ...

Tue May 28, 2019 3:39 pm • 6 Replies • 3749 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Good evening ladies and gentlemen and everyone in between. I joined this site not too long ago because not only do I wish to find a sub, but also because my interest in BDSM has never been expressed t ...

Sun May 26, 2019 12:30 pm • 3161 Replies • 997716 Views