C.A.R.P.s and advice for new people

And the more you talk to people and become informed, the easier it gets to identify said people and move along if that's not what you want. Patience is the key. What's the rush? As usual thank you for ...

Thu Jun 29, 2017 2:21 am • 25 Replies • 16578 Views

Respectfully Why Male Subs?

Obviously as a female submissive I can't comment from a male sub perspective, but I kind of don't see it as a gender thing. It's the same as female Dominants. People identify with whatever makes them ...

Wed Jun 14, 2017 3:31 pm • 56 Replies • 50525 Views

It's not just about location

So it's recently come to my attention that not everyone shares the same views on how to go about meeting up with potential play partners. For me it's not just about location, what about Doctor checks? ...

Sat Jun 10, 2017 5:46 am • 4 Replies • 4616 Views

Consent, Consent, Consent

I have a feeling that I too have experienced this Mistress. I was a bit shocked at the way I felt about instantly being addressed that way (let's just say it was enough for me to have no desire to pur ...

Fri Jun 09, 2017 9:59 am • 7 Replies • 6219 Views

the sound of silence

I would like to say a big THANK YOU to those of you who responded to this post. Your feedback has been invaluable and very much appreciated. It has encouraged me to sit back and take stock. I've taken ...

Thu Jun 08, 2017 12:50 am • 6 Replies • 7696 Views

the sound of silence

I'm new to the experience of being someone's submissive so it's really difficult to gauge what is part of the dynamic and what isn't. I guess my main question is how does a sub tell the difference bet ...

Sun Jun 04, 2017 6:05 pm • 6 Replies • 7696 Views

are looks important

Thank you for putting yourself out there so rawly (if that's a word). I have been kind of wondering too if looks come into it. Maybe it depends what you're looking for? If it's something long term the ...

Sat Jun 03, 2017 2:16 am • 5 Replies • 5039 Views

Short reply, and thinking it's okay.

Thank you this is good feedback to hear. I know for myself that when I first joined the cage I felt really intimidated and unsure of how to respond to messages. I have always responded respectfully an ...

Tue May 30, 2017 7:22 am • 12 Replies • 14400 Views

Staying Kinky while raising (young) children

I don't think it's a silly topic at all. It's a very real question for a very real situation. I'm sorry I can't offer advice because I've not been in your situation, but I hope you find something that ...

Tue May 23, 2017 4:32 am • 6 Replies • 4949 Views

Non sexual bdsm

I'm still very new to the whole D/s lifestyle but for myself it's not just sexual. I think there are so many different aspects to being dominated. It may seem that it's mostly physical but I see it as ...

Sat May 20, 2017 9:40 am • 6 Replies • 8422 Views