What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

Well the obvious answers would be ...

"How do you plan to serve me today slut?" ... hell no, fuck you, and instantly blocked

and ...

"Are you into (something that it clearly says I am or am ...

Thu May 28, 2020 4:34 am • 126 Replies • 40596 Views

About online dom/sub sessions

No, no, no ....

Subs ... you should never, ever, EVER, be engaging in sexual encounters online or otherwise with a Dom that is unknown to you unless you have at a minimum discussed what both of you ...

Mon May 25, 2020 6:59 am • 16 Replies • 14588 Views

About online dom/sub sessions

i am very much into the written word (as evidenced by some of my long posts, and those are often the edited versions lol), but i cannot pull off a full on relationship with no physical connection.
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Sun May 24, 2020 11:48 pm • 16 Replies • 14588 Views

Re: Does the mind need to submit before the person will?

While I agree with the concept that the mind must submit before your entire person does, I believe there is more to it than that. It's not as simple as that.

Submission is a process. When you begin ...

Sun May 24, 2020 11:29 pm • 13 Replies • 4847 Views

About online dom/sub sessions

I am someone that engages in online only encounters. Have done so for the last 5+ years, 1 year in the BDSM context. Online play was nearly a daily experience as part of the latter. Personally, I act ...

Sun May 24, 2020 10:57 pm • 16 Replies • 14588 Views

Self bondage suggestions

Deviance & Desire has a few self-bondage tutorials, as well as other things. You can find them under "free downloads - training & play" at the bottom of their homepage 😊

https://www.devian ...

Sun May 24, 2020 10:44 pm • 8 Replies • 4962 Views

Does monogamy exist in the D/s world?

Monogamy absolutely exists!

I was in a monogamous relationship with a Dom for the last year whom I met on this site. That said, I have run across a lot of people who have multiple partners. Everyon ...

Fri May 22, 2020 5:26 am • 70 Replies • 26354 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

My name has three meanings, although it started with only two.

I chose not to use my usual screen name ... Just Jess ... because it seemed a bit vanilla, and this site was my first venture into the ...

Thu May 21, 2020 10:31 pm • 267 Replies • 104317 Views

Littles and Middles

Love stuffie parades!!!

Sorry I have not been so responsive I have been spiralling in depression. It has been hard without a daddy.

I hope all is well with all of you!

Completely agree with ...

Thu May 21, 2020 10:09 pm • 151 Replies • 38764 Views

Punishments

I have to agree with the statement that no punishment at all is the worst punishment. Not because it does anything to correct the behavior that makes punishment necessary, but because it does the exac ...

Thu May 21, 2020 10:34 am • 9 Replies • 4227 Views