Sadism and Masochism

I'll throw in a newer evolution of RACK to the mix that fits my personal masochism-

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Kink

https://lovingbdsm.kaylalords.com/2018/05/02/s ...

Mon Aug 31, 2020 8:13 am • 54 Replies • 10404 Views

Confused, Mono, message?

While I agree with Miss Bonnie (and not to derail anymore) regarding the frequency of male submissives into this, I would urge you Adoring, to not limit it to male subs. I'm female and have been in se ...

Mon Aug 31, 2020 8:09 am • 44 Replies • 8144 Views

Lesbian kink in the media

I can't think of anything currently in mainstream media, but I strongly recommend The Crashpad Series for high quality, ethically produced queer porn. Like, legit queer porn. Not 2 women doing each ot ...

Thu Aug 27, 2020 10:53 am • 2 Replies • 3446 Views

What Is The Hanky Code?

I forgot to add that like Wakko said, boot laces can be used as well.

Thu Aug 13, 2020 4:33 am • 5 Replies • 2699 Views

What Is The Hanky Code?

The hanky code comes out of gay leather tradition. Before the internet was a thing, gay men would wear different colored bandanas in their back pocket that signaled what they were into (s&m, water ...

Thu Aug 13, 2020 4:31 am • 5 Replies • 2699 Views

Gay and Bisexual (or other non heteronormative variants)

I'm a queer, lesbian, submissive, cisgender woman. I also identify as a boi, in terms of being a masculine of center (not quite butch but desperately wishing I was one) female submissive. Girl just do ...

Sat Jul 25, 2020 3:10 am • 17 Replies • 4258 Views

How did you choose your title?

Oops. My name is not my title, lol. I don't really have a title but I do identity as a boi, a queer, masculine of center but still (in my case) female identified, submissive. It fits far better than g ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 10:06 am • 26 Replies • 9287 Views

How did you choose your title?

It's literally my name. I go by it in the real life leather community I am part of. I run with more of a queer leather crowd (vs our more cis/straight BDSM scene) and the majority of my friends use th ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 6:48 am • 26 Replies • 9287 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

"How old are you?"

Just curious why? This is pretty vital identifying information and personally, not being told is a red flag for me. (And please note this is not a personal indictment. Just genui ...

Thu May 28, 2020 6:52 pm • 126 Replies • 41135 Views

Fucking book club

The Marketplace series by Laura Antoniou or The Killer Wore Leather, also by Laura Antoniou.

Thu May 21, 2020 7:59 pm • 92 Replies • 27186 Views