How did you choose your title?

It's literally my name. I go by it in the real life leather community I am part of. I run with more of a queer leather crowd (vs our more cis/straight BDSM scene) and the majority of my friends use th ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 6:48 am • 26 Replies • 8470 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

"How old are you?"

Just curious why? This is pretty vital identifying information and personally, not being told is a red flag for me. (And please note this is not a personal indictment. Just genui ...

Thu May 28, 2020 6:52 pm • 126 Replies • 37686 Views

Fucking book club

The Marketplace series by Laura Antoniou or The Killer Wore Leather, also by Laura Antoniou.

Thu May 21, 2020 7:59 pm • 92 Replies • 24384 Views

Safeword?

I've known bottoms who like to play harder than their tops but have negotiated harder scenes with them because the top had a safeword to stop. It looked more like a ramping down of the scene but they ...

Tue Mar 17, 2020 2:54 am • 6 Replies • 2818 Views

What book are you reading now

The Institute by Steven King
and
Jo's Boys (the third book in the Little Women world-- it goes Little Women, Little Men, and Jo's Boys). Little Women is my favorite book of all time. when I was lit ...

Fri Mar 13, 2020 10:15 am • 31 Replies • 8846 Views

What book are you reading now

The Slave by Laura Antoniou. Still steamy, still hot.

Robin my second favorite Marketplace series character, closely trailing Chris Parker. Those books are my favorite BDSM/kink/lifestyle fictions ...

Thu Mar 12, 2020 10:59 pm • 31 Replies • 8846 Views

Does being a submissive in BDSM translate to being a follower in normal life?

Djinni ROUTINELY reminds me of how bossy I am. Turning off boss Laura can be hard sometimes but once I do, relaxing into submission is the greatest relief in the world.

Don't be swayed by the ster ...

Tue Mar 10, 2020 11:43 pm • 14 Replies • 6905 Views

Internacional Women’s Day

Solidbob, you are one fantastic flamingo. Thank you for doing the right thing.

Mon Mar 09, 2020 7:49 pm • 7 Replies • 2711 Views

Finding Balance in our Christian home

IowaDom that was beautiful. Thank you.

Tue Mar 03, 2020 8:03 am • 21 Replies • 8406 Views

Mental awareness

For those of you who are interested in seeking professional treatment, NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom) has a fantastic list of Kink/Poly Aware Professionals here: https://www.kapprofessio ...

Sun Feb 23, 2020 11:14 am • 33 Replies • 8937 Views