Could someone explain Old Guard vs. New Guard

Since there is a LOT of misinformation here, as a patched in senior member of a Leather club and who and tries to espouse Leather values in her life, I urge you all to please read the article that Dj ...

Mon Sep 04, 2023 8:03 pm • 20 Replies • 3081 Views

Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

I made a statement on another post that seems to have troubled some folks. I don't apologize one bit, but I want to move the discussion to a new thread because the OP of that post deserves her space. ...

Sat Aug 12, 2023 12:01 am • 25 Replies • 3451 Views

Overwhelmed

Wrong!

Post Topless Pics.. Expect the fucking results

Just replying to boost the fact that you've outed yourself as a victim blamer cum rape apologist.

People have the right to post ANY pic ...

Fri Aug 11, 2023 11:58 pm • 38 Replies • 5663 Views

Overwhelmed

Wrong!

Post Topless Pics.. Expect the fucking results

Just replying to boost the fact that you've outed yourself as a victim blamer cum rape apologist.

People have the right to post ANY pic ...

Fri Aug 11, 2023 8:41 pm • 38 Replies • 5663 Views

Overwhelmed

I want to publicly apologize if I was one of those who made you overwhelmed. It was never intended to make you feel overwhelmed or uneasy. I apologize for my part.

If all you did was send a greeti ...

Fri Aug 11, 2023 8:18 pm • 38 Replies • 5663 Views

Trans Lives Matter

This should be in the "Just for fun" section.

What's that supposed to mean? Supporting trans lives and rights is an integral part of being in the kink community and thus belongs right here. I certa ...

Wed Jul 26, 2023 10:34 am • 6 Replies • 1224 Views

If everyone has an opinion then why try to silence people?

Let me get this straight.

You ignore.

And you act as if others are ignorant when you self project your insecurities?

You're a hypocrite.

See, this is where I move on.

I'm fine with dis ...

Tue Jul 04, 2023 9:15 am • 23 Replies • 2705 Views

If everyone has an opinion then why try to silence people?

You're wrong simplylaura. Every opinion matters. Ignorance does not excuse the crime.

Do not confuse sympathy for responsibility and accountability. Only a coward avoids and ignores. It betrays eve ...

Tue Jul 04, 2023 8:55 am • 23 Replies • 2705 Views

If everyone has an opinion then why try to silence people?

If you don't care about the opinions of others then why would anyone care about yours?

If every opinion matters then you'll listen to every one.

Only an idiot ignores. Are you an idiot?

Simpl ...

Tue Jul 04, 2023 8:27 am • 23 Replies • 2705 Views

If everyone has an opinion then why try to silence people?

Then you're a shit listener if you don't listen.

You're making excuses to try and justfy being a shit listener if you don't listen. Period.

It doesn't requrie consent. Do you need someone else's ...

Tue Jul 04, 2023 8:13 am • 23 Replies • 2705 Views