Help with learning how to be a good sub

Noting from your profile that you are also a Christian, there are a few forum threads (you will have to find them) that deal also with being a Christian and being in the BDSM lifestyle, they may also ...

Sun Oct 18, 2020 8:28 pm • 6 Replies • 2847 Views

Whats your favourite toy?

Favorite toy? Easy answer! It's the big ol wooden toys I built for the playroom, the kind-of-bench-kind-of-stocks - kind-of-who-knows, my personally fav by far. Took me two weeks to design, and thre ...

Thu Oct 15, 2020 5:10 am • 33 Replies • 12991 Views

Abuse, where is the line?

In the scope pf performing for pay in a porno movie, even that videotaped consent will not stand up in court. Bottom line is, causing physical harm to another person is against the law .. period. And ...

Tue Oct 13, 2020 3:41 pm • 27 Replies • 6791 Views

Abuse, where is the line?

It should also be noted that in **most** states, no person can consent to allow a crime to be committed on them, ie, agreements, contracts etc will not protect you from assault and other charges...

Tue Oct 13, 2020 4:15 am • 27 Replies • 6791 Views

Song that describes you or your feelings

ok .. gonna sound non Dom ish again... but hey! I specialize in it!!

The Sweetest thing - Juice Newton - SPECIFICALLY this stanza:

And I Have Never Been Afraid Of Losing
And I Have Never Want ...

Mon Oct 12, 2020 3:11 am • 363 Replies • 63767 Views

Strange nite time comments

Not trying to be the alarmist here, but tread VERY carefully. When we find subterfuge this close to home, and from a explicitly trusted source, more may be afoot than just what has been discovered. No ...

Sun Oct 11, 2020 7:01 pm • 10 Replies • 3756 Views

Double Dom?

No problem, just didn't want to see a good marriage dissolve for a bad reason .... oh, and please PLEASE remember, being a good sub does NOT mean doing things you do not want to do. Of course you ar ...

Sat Oct 10, 2020 6:17 am • 10 Replies • 4689 Views

Double Dom?

Please be careful opening Pandora's box. Make absolutely certain you are going to be 1000% ok with what you are considering....
Going to be ok with him inside another person and enjoying it?
Going ...

Sat Oct 10, 2020 3:51 am • 10 Replies • 4689 Views

IRL or LDR ?

Having had 2 of them in the last year, I can only speak to my own experience. The first involved visiting back and forth from only 250 miles away, but that apparently, was too much and it dissolved. ...

Fri Oct 09, 2020 1:06 am • 11 Replies • 2916 Views

Submission/independent women

From the discussions I have had, what I can offer is ....

Women (or men) that are in RL alpha Roles - they are VERY demanding roles, and depending on the actual role, can suck the life out of you. ...

Thu Oct 08, 2020 9:38 pm • 29 Replies • 7030 Views