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Posts by Solace(dom male)

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End of a dynamic

In my life, its has always helped me to take a break from dating. It doesn't have to be long. After I recover from the rough feelings, I've found the most healthy things have always been a dramatic ch ...

Fri Oct 28, 2022 8:19 pm • 6 Replies • 4196 Views

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Solace

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Untied

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End of a dynamic

172

Update from previous post (red flags or just not cut out for it)

Good for you darling. I hope for you the very best relationship in the future. I pray this has not discouraged you, and you still have the courage to reach out for the compassion and love that is out ...

Fri Oct 28, 2022 8:02 pm • 9 Replies • 3363 Views

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Solace

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Update from previous post (red flags or just not cut out for it)

173

New sub

I agree, it is something I also see a lot. I propose though that unfair may be an unfair word. My thoughts on the matter are rather complex and thusly not good sustenance for this medium in their enti ...

Fri Oct 28, 2022 9:48 am • 48 Replies • 14102 Views

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Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

New sub

174

New sub

I confess in hindsight there was likely a way to communicate I was more on her side in her grief. Though pain is a terrible thing, it does not benefit anyone to broad cast a belief that men are manipu ...

Fri Oct 28, 2022 7:46 am • 48 Replies • 14102 Views

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Solace

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

New sub

175

New sub

Thankfully there are statistics about that as well. Put simply, the majority of women are attempting to date the same small pool of men.

Fri Oct 28, 2022 3:16 am • 48 Replies • 14102 Views

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Solace

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

New sub

176

New sub

Hello HoneyMaey,

That's a very disrespectful view of men and such a statement does not benefit you in the least.

Men are certainly not pursuing younger women for how exploitable they are. Its a ...

Fri Oct 28, 2022 2:34 am • 48 Replies • 14102 Views

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Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

New sub

177

New sub

Hello Honeymaey, its obvious you care and want this to succeed. It still can and it might not depending on if he has valid reasons or not. As others have noted long distance is difficult. Here's some ...

Thu Oct 27, 2022 9:54 am • 48 Replies • 14102 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

New sub

178

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

Hello Diaaa, This is an...exciting post. You were not treated with the respect and care the community on the cage typically holds as the standard. There are some members on here who do play more...sim ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 7:43 pm • 34 Replies • 12742 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

179

Replaced?

One of the aspects I enjoy most about this lifestyle is trust. It enables me to have open and candid conversations with my subs that I wouldn't ordinarily be able to have. In fact I've found these con ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 7:09 pm • 5 Replies • 2303 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Replaced?

180

Tear your own heart out?

Time. Your heart isn't like your hands. You don't get to just let go.

You have to decide to let go first though. Move on to other options. Choose to see the joy in simple things like a warm dr ...

Wed Oct 12, 2022 8:23 am • 13 Replies • 5678 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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Tear your own heart out?