The in-between times

Patience. Worthwhile goals take effort. Sorting through what isn't right for you is part of the process.


Seek out how to make yourself more valuable in the meantime. It makes the process faster.

Mon Sep 19, 2022 5:10 pm • 17 Replies • 2942 Views

Give me Ideas to play with my slave

You appear to have a developed dynamic in which your sub plays the part of a doll. If you wish to develop her skills you could practice a few things:
* Throating you longer and deeper
* ...

Fri Sep 16, 2022 9:02 am • 50 Replies • 12128 Views

One month in and struggling

It would benefit you to put more thought into the limits you present upfront to potentials. As a married woman with kids, you have duties to your husband and kids first. Limitations imposed by a Dom ...

Thu Sep 15, 2022 11:45 pm • 16 Replies • 4219 Views

FAVORITE/UNIQUE RULE IN YOUR DYNAMIC

Showers. When possible we always bathe together. Neither of us are allowed to wash ourselves, but instead must clean the other to our satisfaction. I enjoy making sure my girls taste clean most everyw ...

Thu Sep 15, 2022 11:32 pm • 10 Replies • 1576 Views

Gender identity ideology

You don't get to be tired of logical discussion. As someone waving the credentials of conventions and research on the subject, more is expected from you. You should be ashamed that your knowledge and ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 11:18 pm • 113 Replies • 21998 Views

Gender identity ideology

Recal that this is an opportunity for conversation. Conversation whose purpose is the exchange of ideas.

Whether I agree with Jashine or not, I found them calm, logical and open for discourse. Regr ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 8:43 am • 113 Replies • 21998 Views

Advice

Perhaps as you've seen, BDSM is for many an act of exploration. My shallow suggestion might be to ask more targeted questions.

I would suggest first the study of how to play safe. Others and myse ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 9:54 pm • 28 Replies • 5253 Views

Dating/Meeting Verifications...

To NoClvrNickname,
I appear to be confused then. I see little value in putting my digits in the system for any reason beyond such verification of a background check. A report which would contain any ...

Sat Aug 06, 2022 12:36 am • 19 Replies • 3225 Views

Dating/Meeting Verifications...

To Beautiful eyes,
I have been unclear. It is not about giving the person about the information but a service. The fear implied is that the service is a sham and they are somehow benefiting from the ...

Fri Aug 05, 2022 7:37 pm • 19 Replies • 3225 Views

Dating/Meeting Verifications...

To LoneWolf
I take confidence from your assurance at least those companies won't abuse my payment information. If they keep that information secure or not is a separate issue and if they are making s ...

Thu Aug 04, 2022 7:35 pm • 19 Replies • 3225 Views