Confusion about Punishments

This community is diverse. Straight answer's are only straight when viewed from a single perspective.

Punishment does not have to be physical. From my singular view, the only thing a punishment mus ...

Mon May 04, 2020 10:12 pm • 14 Replies • 6088 Views

Teaching a non-BDSM guy how to be Dom

At times I feel as though I have a differing opinion from most on here.

I believe that many will say if your partner isn't acting like a Dom they won't be a Dom. Few will say it can work. I fit my ...

Thu Mar 12, 2020 5:07 pm • 14 Replies • 5912 Views

Does being a submissive in BDSM translate to being a follower in normal life?

No. It's decided by you.

Ask around, like you just have, you'll find that opinions vary. Which means there is no factual definition of a sub or Dom, and what they must be/do.

I have met girls w ...

Tue Mar 10, 2020 7:42 pm • 14 Replies • 7495 Views

Possibly a stupid question...

I wouldn't worry about the titles, unless you truly feel a need to define who you are to others.

In my small view of this world, you are the Dominant one in the relationship. I don't care what the ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 9:13 pm • 7 Replies • 4695 Views

"rules"

I believe I don't enforce many "core" rules. Core being rules which are common between subs of mine. I enforce referring to me as Sir with a capital for full respect of the title, and I enforce trust ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 9:04 pm • 13 Replies • 7278 Views

What should you do if you catch your new Dom in a lie

Decide. However you must. But decide if you trust in your Dom. That is to say that you trust in reasons for his actions. If you cant, then politely ask to talk about it or leave.

As it had been st ...

Wed Feb 05, 2020 7:15 pm • 30 Replies • 13311 Views

concerning boundaries, Dom to Dom

Education mostly. Each problem fixed comes with a lesson for them to remember. I am building and nurturing more capable individuals. Punishments are dealt for failure to remember or follow past lesson ...

Fri Jan 31, 2020 5:02 pm • 10 Replies • 5538 Views

Exhausting

I struggle with fitting inside or using the boxes that others make, therefore my perspective will be of dubious value.

However, it may be that your style clashes strongly with others. I say that t ...

Mon Jan 20, 2020 7:32 pm • 17 Replies • 6849 Views

Instadoms

MstrMac, a sin of mine is occasionally sloth. I have been meaning to post in the forums a request for these resources. Rather regularly I have brand new, often young girls reaching out to me.

It i ...

Thu Jan 16, 2020 8:11 pm • 10 Replies • 5423 Views

Instadoms

I believe this can get heated very fast. The host of this post, our wonderful VanDom, makes important points. Of which my take away is that Doms must be knowledable about their actions and responsibil ...

Wed Jan 15, 2020 9:02 pm • 10 Replies • 5423 Views