Lifestyle BDSM

This is not a perfect analogy, but it helps give me perspective.

i approach the lifestyle trying to base it on what is vs expectation of what should be. One way i think of it is as we have appet ...

Wed Oct 11, 2023 4:05 pm • 18 Replies • 3779 Views

Solo Play

@tallslenderguy:

Interesting.. And opposite of what a lot of people want to think when it comes to men.

The old adage "90% of men whack off and 10% lie about it" shit.

Who cares, re ...

Sun Oct 08, 2023 6:58 pm • 7 Replies • 4061 Views

Solo Play

I guess our situations are quite different then. I feel that my sexuality is mine to share or not with another person, but it isn't dependent on them. The sexual sensations that please me may be bro ...

Sun Oct 08, 2023 6:46 pm • 7 Replies • 4061 Views

Solo Play

i hesitated to respond to this because i don't engage in solo play. i even don't like to masturbate.

If i died and someone had to pack up my belongings though, most would doubt the above comment. ...

Sat Oct 07, 2023 11:43 pm • 7 Replies • 4061 Views

Collaring

Not trying to be an ass here, but i'd suggest asking your Dom. We do not know them and the D/s dynamic, imo, is a very individual thing. i've been in situations where one or both parties had this unsp ...

Sat Oct 07, 2023 8:35 pm • 7 Replies • 2247 Views

Any Doms who do it for fun?

Sorry to break the flow albeit very briefly:


I (used to) stick my hands in pants for fun.




Was there someone wearing them at the time?

Fri Oct 06, 2023 11:41 pm • 22 Replies • 5739 Views

Re: Any Doms who do it for fun?

Thanks for your thoughts. The more insights I get, the more fascinating this is becoming!
I'm starting to believe that one of my previous revelations may be true, and that this community does hav ...

Fri Oct 06, 2023 10:52 pm • 22 Replies • 5739 Views

Re: Any Doms who do it for fun?

I don't know if this means I'm just a bad Sub or if having self-respect is antithetical to being submissive in general. But as someone who likes to know that they are entertaining others and kind of ...

Fri Oct 06, 2023 7:16 pm • 22 Replies • 5739 Views

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

i only have my perspective. i've experienced being a paycheck in a hetero vanilla relationship. Since accepting myself and living as a gay male, i can't count the number of times guys have wanted me ...

Wed Oct 04, 2023 12:51 am • 43 Replies • 15567 Views

Fuck up my YouTube Music Playlist

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Np21rH7Ldto

Sat Sep 30, 2023 5:33 pm • 9 Replies • 1891 Views