Lack of Dominant gay men on The Cage

i'm a gay male, total bottom with some sub thrown in. i've been part of The Cage community for ~4 years. i too have experienced the wish for more gay folk, but have also enjoyed and benefitted troddi ...

Tue Sep 26, 2023 3:53 pm • 7 Replies • 1370 Views

Dominant Styles

i went to read the profile of the OP, but it was not there for me.

Tue Sep 26, 2023 3:30 pm • 19 Replies • 4030 Views

Let’s get the facts straight

'insta-doms' (or insta-anyone) are sorta like an unsolicited slap on the face. To me, the worst part is the utter presumptuous ignorance and disconnect. They take something intricate and reduce it ...

Sun Sep 24, 2023 7:42 pm • 29 Replies • 3570 Views

Jugging reationships

i'm gonna be cliche and quote: "necessity is the mother of invention."

We are all complex individuals. Sure, we fall into groups and we come up with terms and labels to help us communicate, but no ...

Fri Sep 22, 2023 8:21 pm • 2 Replies • 612 Views

Ownership

i think this is a great question.

i see generally two approaches from people re ownership, a sort of letter or the law vs spirit of the law question. i personally go with spirt vs letter, which i ...

Fri Sep 22, 2023 7:09 pm • 11 Replies • 2180 Views

The Moderation on this Website is Bizarre

i've been part of The Cage community for about 4 years, i've only been moderated once when i posted something in the forum that was deemed more appropriate as a blog post. i was given time to copy and ...

Wed Sep 20, 2023 6:32 pm • 14 Replies • 2612 Views

Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

I can’t wrap my mind around why you wouldn’t want to share.

Speculating here.

To me the implication behind not sharing would be to muscle through and not disappoint the Doms desires, effort ...

Sat Sep 16, 2023 6:23 pm • 40 Replies • 5512 Views

Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

To me it's never "play." Though i get that's common vernacular, it just feels like a misnomer to me...especially when factors like "time and effort" are involved.
i see such get togethers as being ...

Sat Sep 16, 2023 9:37 am • 40 Replies • 5512 Views

Do you consider Hypnosis edgeplay? Why or why not?

Hypnosis has long held fascination and appeal to me. i love the power dynamic that can happen in a relationship of opposites, and the idea of hypnosis to me is both appealing and scary for the same ...

Thu Sep 14, 2023 5:08 pm • 8 Replies • 1184 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

maybe someone gets what i wrote. What im trying to say.

i think i may "get what

i could have written that better. What i meant to say was it seemed to me that your pointing out the importance ...

Wed Sep 13, 2023 6:17 pm • 60 Replies • 7408 Views