Drinking his climax cream

I always joked about how cum is "God's energy drink" for women and on a whim, I looked up the chemical make-up of male cum.

I was RIGHT! Besides proteins, there is a whole slew of electrolytes and ...

Sat Sep 10, 2022 3:38 pm • 68 Replies • 13948 Views

Training a submissive

i believe sustainable living means we as people define the standard/s, the standard/s does/do not define us. i think it's really easy to slide into the first approach, the second takes continuous att ...

Mon Sep 05, 2022 2:57 pm • 28 Replies • 11488 Views

Scent and taste conditioning

Interesting, and possibly pertinent.

"Strange as it may sound, some scientists suspect that the humble armpit could be sending all kinds of signals from casual flirtation to sounding the alarm. Tha ...

Sun May 15, 2022 3:47 pm • 21 Replies • 4807 Views

What is your opinion on sex toys for men?

Not a universal assessment, just my personal feelings.

i have a whole drawer full of "toys," but don't use them on myself generally. For me, "toys" are meant to be used as means to enhance connecti ...

Fri Apr 29, 2022 3:57 pm • 16 Replies • 3858 Views

Kink: Free to be what you choose or embracing the ugly truth

i think we are free to choose, but not everyone is going to embrace who and how we are, some will think us "ugly," others will think us hot or beautiful, others will be uninterestedly neutral. i thin ...

Sun Apr 24, 2022 4:02 pm • 2 Replies • 816 Views

What it's like for Dommes

i think this is a great topic of discussion... and complex.

my perspective is as a gay guy. i identify as "total bottom with some sub." i came aware of my sub side while i was married to a woman ...

Sat Apr 23, 2022 4:01 pm • 54 Replies • 12893 Views

Neediness in Submissives

Like the OP, the term "neediness," does not evoke a warm, fuzzy feeling in me. i've never thought or put in a profile or ad: "needy person," as one of my l wants/needs. To me, there's a difference ...

Mon Apr 18, 2022 6:34 pm • 17 Replies • 7292 Views

Need confidence

i think a big part of confidence comes from self acceptance. i believe in order to have self acceptance one has to (truly and thoroughly) know their self, which i think involves a lifelong practice of ...

Sun Apr 17, 2022 9:00 pm • 7 Replies • 1965 Views

A Poly/Mono Relationship

I've got a story I saw recently that might help. A wife gets up for work before her husband each day and has a coffee while she gets ready. She's in a rush and leaves the coffee out. It really winds t ...

Sun Apr 17, 2022 6:15 pm • 34 Replies • 7477 Views

A Poly/Mono Relationship

i'm sorry for your obvious hurt.

Relationship has so many angles and complexities.

To me, the challenge you are facing was there from the beginning. I.e., you got into a relationship with some ...

Fri Apr 15, 2022 5:25 pm • 34 Replies • 7477 Views