Strictly Online D/s Relationship 1:1 Pros and Cons

i dated a trans person a few years back (FtM) who i think developed a different way of face to face communication because of being different from the 'norm.' They would often pause with long spaces o ...

Sun Jan 02, 2022 6:03 pm • 60 Replies • 15908 Views

Strictly Online D/s Relationship 1:1 Pros and Cons

Pro: The written word can be excellently edited and purposeful, long thoughts/feelings can expressed. Written words can be a form of edging.
(The disadvantage to this is it also allows someone to lab ...

Sun Jan 02, 2022 5:40 pm • 60 Replies • 15908 Views

Strictly Online D/s Relationship 1:1 Pros and Cons

Pro: The written word can be excellently edited and purposeful, long thoughts/feelings can expressed. Written words can be a form of edging.

Con: The written word lacks the tone and visual cues of ...

Sun Jan 02, 2022 5:02 pm • 60 Replies • 15908 Views

New Year's countdown of Dom red flags

7. For me? Fear of expressing need and substituting force to compensate for that fear. Nothing opens me faster than a Man who can honestly and openly express His need, especially when mixed with desi ...

Thu Dec 30, 2021 5:04 pm • 39 Replies • 6857 Views

"Perspectives and Fear"

Wow, that's a lot. i'm not presuming to give advice or that i begin to grasp the half of this, let alone the whole of it. Since you ask for thoughts, i'll share a few of mine, for what they may or may ...

Mon Dec 27, 2021 12:35 am • 7 Replies • 2516 Views

Who is in Charge? Surely it’s the Dom…but is it

"Who has the power?"

To my way of thinking, both. i believe the strongest natural bond occurs when there is a balance of power from both sides: symbiosis. It may fluctuate, but i think health is ho ...

Sun Dec 26, 2021 10:05 pm • 44 Replies • 14540 Views

Tights

i've never worn tights. i'm not trans or even fem, and i don't have your nice legs, so they'd look awkward at best on me.

The most fem i have worn is lace panties, and that was at the behest of m ...

Sun Dec 26, 2021 6:56 pm • 17 Replies • 4978 Views

Worship and Submission

i define/describe as "total bottom with some sub." That's as close an honest summary as i can come up with as a general label.

For me (i.e., i only speak for myself here, no universal notion atta ...

Sun Dec 26, 2021 6:20 am • 25 Replies • 10844 Views

Incorporating sexuality into everyday living

Here's a simple one that has a decided mind fuck affect on me throughout the day. i've had a Mate that asked me to sit when i pee, He especially liked to be there when i was peeing and me to see Him s ...

Fri Dec 24, 2021 3:59 pm • 18 Replies • 4510 Views

Incorporating sexuality into everyday living

i currently have a Man in my life who wants me to wear a jock He chose... all the time, even at work or when i am asleep. We're monogamous and we live long distance, so it's a way of connecting sexual ...

Wed Dec 22, 2021 8:47 pm • 18 Replies • 4510 Views