Never masturbates !?!

the concept of going months, years or never is about like saying you know a guy who chooses not to eat for weeks on end.
I don't get it either, but I also don't get what makes someone a sub or a mas ...

Fri Jan 21, 2022 5:53 pm • 104 Replies • 33637 Views

If your logical and intelligent as a sub is that a bad thing

I probably tend to go overboard when it comes to communication, especially when it’s written. I want to go deep when there is a connection.

One thing that can be a challenge is tone, we just don’t ...

Thu Jan 20, 2022 11:17 pm • 21 Replies • 8038 Views

AGE GAP - Do you have a limit???

Culiure sets the standards and we are all culturally conditioned.

Many of us discovered at a certain point in our life that we have "kinks," which to me is just a generic term indicating desires/n ...

Mon Jan 17, 2022 4:54 pm • 35 Replies • 12163 Views

Is there something halfway between Dd/lg & D/s?

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It seems to me that, depending on the speed of the fluid, that that could be further qualified to:" the exact right Man doing the exact right thing in the exact right moment." Whic ...

Sun Jan 16, 2022 9:25 am • 33 Replies • 12935 Views

Chastity cages

i own 8 cages, metal and plastic. i've worn each maybe once. As expressed in other posts in The Cage, my 'total bottom' wiring is such that i get nothing from using 'toys' on myself, including cages ...

Sun Jan 16, 2022 12:50 am • 9 Replies • 5175 Views

Is there something halfway between Dd/lg & D/s?

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I think that sometimes we lump little and baby girls together. To me little deal in age regression, whereas baby girls deal with more of a role play. In short, you can be an ...

Sat Jan 15, 2022 11:22 pm • 33 Replies • 12935 Views

Cuckold and forced bi

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i too have some speed bumps with the term "forced."

It seems to me that if one is expressing a desire to be forced, it is no longer force? Or at least it removes a major ...

Fri Jan 14, 2022 8:16 pm • 44 Replies • 34984 Views

Cuckold and forced bi

I guess I see it quite differently. Like I said if it works for someone else that's their business but I don't see how anyone with any self esteem could be okay with their partner openly having sex w ...

Fri Jan 14, 2022 4:59 pm • 44 Replies • 34984 Views

Cuckold and forced bi

I was mystified by my own arousal to being degraded/humiliated, then connected awhile back that it’s a dual experience. I do not get aroused when the act is done forcefully or in a bullying, mean way, ...

Fri Jan 14, 2022 8:35 am • 44 Replies • 34984 Views

Cuckold and forced bi

I understand Closeted's point as far as the "Self Esteem" thing,
I *don't* understand how someone can furrow their brow and declare anyone involved in cuckolding to be a pitiable and unfortunate pers ...

Thu Jan 13, 2022 11:39 pm • 44 Replies • 34984 Views