My bad

Ditto the preceding responses, and....

Explorig a new part of yourself can be exciting, scary and vulnerable, eh? Unfortunately, the online world is not always (read: "never") a safe or civil plac ...

Sun Dec 12, 2021 8:44 pm • 6 Replies • 2788 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

I have asked why and have gotten no response... I have not seen him so I sent an email... But I have not reached out to him in 5 days and he did not stay when he came and got his things...I said i ...

Sun Dec 12, 2021 8:13 pm • 32 Replies • 16472 Views

Subspace?

i've experienced sub space on very few occasions, maybe only once. I went there though and found my way back on my own, though He did end up getting a piece of my heart.

I personally believe that ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 7:30 pm • 14 Replies • 4980 Views

Subspace?

i've experienced sub space on very few occasions, maybe only once. i spent a weekend with a Dom i met vacationing in Palm Springs and He managed to regress me (age wise). It was a profound experience, ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 6:27 pm • 14 Replies • 4980 Views

Name 3 of your favorite fetishes and 3 that you would like to try

All receiving (total gay bottom )

Core stuff:
1. anal penetration, insemination, impregnation
2. affectionate degradation
3. mind fuck/control

Wants (really these seem connected to and are ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 6:09 pm • 35 Replies • 13542 Views

serve or please??

Wow, love this question and topic of discussion. It's a core topic for me and i think there are some wonderfully thoughtful responses.

For me, it is all about the connection and bond between me and ...

Mon Dec 06, 2021 6:20 pm • 23 Replies • 10086 Views

Verbal Humiliation

For me, verbal humiliation is one of the deep bonds i can have with an intimate Top/Dom/Husband. For a long time, the paradox of it was a mystery for me, but i think i have come to understand it.
...

Sun Dec 05, 2021 7:00 pm • 31 Replies • 16380 Views

What is BDSM/kink to you?

To me "kink" is just a blanket term for individual, usually sexual/sexualized need/desire that doesn't fit the cultural 'norm.' I found this at etymology online:
kink (n.)
1670s, "knot-like contr ...

Sun Nov 28, 2021 7:46 pm • 11 Replies • 5612 Views

Dark Fantasies...

Great thread. Funny, how we are all on a kink site called "The Cage," talking about our fears of being and expressing who we are.

my "dark fantasies" get divided into two basic categories: "gross" ...

Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:12 pm • 27 Replies • 13364 Views

Men, what you need to know.

I absolutely agree with you there. Men in our society are taught that showing emotion is weak - other than anger. Boys get their feelings hurt and are told “be a man!” Punch someone because they’r ...

Mon Nov 22, 2021 9:15 pm • 93 Replies • 31701 Views