Men, what you need to know.

Oh, hey, i have a couple (of: "men, what you need to know")

1). Many (if not most?) of our notions and attitudes about women fly under the radar, i.e., are unconscious and part of our cultural co ...

Mon Nov 22, 2021 8:55 pm • 93 Replies • 31703 Views

Predictive Text Fun

"I'm a critical and my favorite kink is issues"

Mon Nov 22, 2021 5:38 pm • 14 Replies • 3364 Views

How often do you guys text your dom ?

i don't really like texting. It's okay for a quick touching of bases, but not a great communication tool in my opinion.

Face to face is so different from meeting someone online, everything seems d ...

Sun Nov 21, 2021 10:50 pm • 14 Replies • 10694 Views

Are slaves also subs?

I disagree with objectification component being a factor of a slave and not a sub. That is single to the character or circumstances of the individual regardless of label. a slave doesn't mean you ...

Sun Nov 21, 2021 7:53 pm • 53 Replies • 19361 Views

Are slaves also subs?

DrWakko... I guess understand your point, but it isn't that easy. First, as you can read there are many different interpretations. Second ... checking a box doesn't mean it is reality. Not with a pote ...

Sun Nov 21, 2021 6:08 pm • 53 Replies • 19361 Views

having a willing body isn't enough

For me this is not a simple yea or no answer. Understanding and accepting myself and my kinks has been a long journey.

For me "a willing body is not my first choice, my ideal," but sometimes, a w ...

Sun Nov 21, 2021 5:48 pm • 9 Replies • 4587 Views

Any Male Subs?

Yep, gay male bottom with a dose of sub thrown in. i haven't found many gay guys on here, but there are some wonderful people and great conversation.

Sun Nov 21, 2021 5:13 am • 53 Replies • 23698 Views

Re: Being a “Boss Lady” - why is this an issue?

Disclaimer- this is NOT a gender comparison prompt. This is NOT an “I’m female, hear me roar” prompt either.

My hope is to gain clarity or perhaps open a few minds around the stereotypes of strong ...

Sat Nov 20, 2021 7:56 pm • 18 Replies • 5780 Views

Re: I think it’s supposed to mean you are cute

What makes me ignore messages?
When I see terrible spelling, I guess it's called text talk. I'm not too fond of it. "Hru" "U is c8"
Also arrogance. Huge turn-off.

What irks me?
Getting one-w ...

Thu Nov 18, 2021 9:43 pm • 119 Replies • 39482 Views

Forced Orgasm and Piss Control

Hmmm, interesting issue. Nurse here as well, so physiology is endlessly fascinating to me.

First thing that comes to mind (beyond meds that can help bladder control) is kegels. Did a quick search ...

Wed Nov 17, 2021 5:02 pm • 25 Replies • 12164 Views