Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

Was I ghosted, yes of course. Did I ghost others in my life, have to admit yes. Every person who is ghosting is not mine and after a short time I'm back to myself and learned something. Teachers come ...

Sun Aug 02, 2020 4:45 pm • 16 Replies • 6246 Views

Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

NoClvrNickname wrote: "It’s also entirely possible that the “ghoster” is trying to avoid hurting the “ghostee” - rather than saying “I don’t think we are compatible” or “I’m not attracted to you” (OUC ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 8:43 pm • 16 Replies • 6246 Views

Re: At which age did you realize your submission or Dominanc

I was asked this question once, and it gave me pause.
My submission was simply natural to me.
Yet I began thinking ...what a great question -
When was my defining moment?

In retrospect...
There ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 7:30 pm • 95 Replies • 39436 Views

Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

i have some wonderful friends on this site and, have also read more than a few posts in forum, relating stories of "ghosting" or abandonment or whatever one might call it. I don't think the phenomena ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 6:43 pm • 16 Replies • 6246 Views

Re: Submissive guy learning to submit.

Hey everybody I'm a young guy who likes to submit to men, and I would like to learn more about what being a good submissive involves. I'm willing to hear anyone's opinion both subs and Dom's. So if yo ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 5:05 pm • 4 Replies • 4020 Views

What book are you reading now

Sapiens

Fri Jul 31, 2020 6:08 pm • 31 Replies • 13176 Views

Re: What do you do for foreplay?

Phew, very personal post, here goes. I have a suspicion that, for me, arousal always starts in the head. I need that mental stimulation. Physical stimulation by itself does basically nothing. ...

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Thu Jul 23, 2020 7:33 pm • 13 Replies • 7374 Views

Third party personals.

Yep, this is a thing in BDSM (though i am glad The Cage does not permit it).

When i consider it, it's not all that odd in context. There are some in the BDSM community who espouse the idea that th ...

Thu Jul 23, 2020 6:01 pm • 6 Replies • 4388 Views

Extreme Degrading

@ Reiddean

Would you expand on that thought a little? (aaaand you're fucking hot)

Wed Jul 22, 2020 10:27 pm • 16 Replies • 13281 Views

Spanked to tears

i feel like i don't have any masochist in me, at least on a physical level? i sometimes wonder if that didn't get conditioned out of me because as a sub child (and i can see retrospectively how both ...

Wed Jul 22, 2020 9:10 pm • 16 Replies • 14630 Views