How welcomed are FTMs/transmales?

i would guess the welcome is individual? Which i find unfortunate. To me, people who are different should be among the most open and accepting out there. Many, if not most? of us have experienced the ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 5:53 pm • 5 Replies • 2693 Views

Re: Anal

I hate anal but my bf just expressed interest in fucking my ass. I told him we could work up to it and meant that. The next time we fucked, he fingered my ass while pounding my pussy. I really really ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 5:21 pm • 23 Replies • 12035 Views

How do you?

i loved every one of these answers!

i think, ultimately, there's just no getting around the risk of rejection. As others have noted, we can lessen that risk by refining our choices to BDSM specifi ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 4:10 pm • 4 Replies • 3340 Views

Orgasm denial.

"Masterbait." Oh wow, there's an inadvertent double entendre and a keeper.

i think, as with all things BDSM (and probably beyond?) that there may be general "done things," but all of this is ulti ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 3:53 pm • 11 Replies • 8087 Views

Sucking cocks

This is a tricky one for me. Definitely a cock sucker here, but for it to venture beyond the physical into deeper psychological territory for me requires a Top or Dom who sees and gets me and has a co ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 3:28 pm • 7 Replies • 4885 Views

An interesting insight about dom/sub relationships?

Bullying, forceful, behavior never strikes me as dom, maybe dom wanna be? To me, it's immature and the last thing i want is to have any kind of D/s relationship with someone who is immature.

i s ...

Sun Jul 12, 2020 3:39 pm • 17 Replies • 9064 Views

Contradicting Desires?

I’m a gay bottom with sub, but was married to a woman for years, so I have that mixed perspective.
i shut down with force or bullying, but respond like a magnet to ‘grooming’, which typically has a ...

Sat Jul 11, 2020 7:37 pm • 3 Replies • 3369 Views

Before or after??

When i was married (to a woman), i learned early in our marriage never to come first. The first few weeks of our marriage, she came pretty easily, but then one day about a month into our marriage she ...

Sat Jul 11, 2020 3:58 pm • 6 Replies • 3233 Views

What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

Inquisitive
openness
articulate
courage
vulnerability
balance

Fri Jul 10, 2020 3:37 pm • 119 Replies • 41669 Views

Degradation?

A different take on this.
i've long wondered about my response to certain kinds of "degradation" and how erotically exciting and actually nurturing it can feel? my emotional response seems so counte ...

Thu Jul 09, 2020 6:50 pm • 6 Replies • 3285 Views