It Would Be Nice

Aw well, I am sorry you all took it that way.

If you judge me though, shouldn't you know me pesonally before you do that? None of you know me well enough to know my preferences, yet you still judg ...

Wed Jun 10, 2020 6:31 pm • 21 Replies • 7520 Views

Teaching new subs how to serve

“As a seasoned sub, age 42, I have learned from experience that each Master has his own teaching and training style and there is no one way. As a sub I expect to receive a new set of rules and regulat ...

Tue Jun 09, 2020 8:29 pm • 11 Replies • 19050 Views

informal Poll

This is not a simple question for me.
It depends.
For a long time, i'd respond to everyone, trying to put something of substance into any response i would make. But i confess i have been affected a ...

Tue Jun 09, 2020 11:13 am • 20 Replies • 6115 Views

Affectionate humiliation

Hmmm, really? Is that what "little" is?

i am not cognitively "humiliated/embarassed" (well maybe a bit?) but i am emotionally, and i attribute that to conditioning? To the point i don't see mysel ...

Tue Jun 09, 2020 1:43 am • 5 Replies • 2630 Views

Affectionate humiliation

i had an experience with a Dom who gave me a task and was continually talking to me throughout. He was practically gushing exclaiming "good boy!!!" when i did the task as He liked. He said how proud H ...

Tue Jun 09, 2020 1:24 am • 5 Replies • 2630 Views

Which Are You?

does my zodiac sign influence it? Naah, just kidding.
have you seen this on top? just in case you all like tests

https://www.16personalities.com/

i took this one too after a friend here took i ...

Mon Jun 08, 2020 11:59 pm • 33 Replies • 11153 Views

Affectionate humiliation

i recently had a sort of epiphany about my desire/need for what i have come to call "affectionate humiliation." It's a powerful 'collar' for me. As i am wired, there is no turn on or connection if a ...

Mon Jun 08, 2020 9:44 pm • 5 Replies • 2630 Views

Your basic rules

These are more ideals for me than "rules."

1. Chemistry of kinks. Without it a relationship devolves into quid pro quo vs. being symbiotic
2. Mutual understanding and dedication to the principle ...

Mon Jun 08, 2020 4:55 pm • 5 Replies • 4614 Views

Online Vs Face to Face - Relationship

One of the hazards of online is scammers. That can be hard, there seem to be more than a few heartless, soulless people out there who have no regard for people. Sociopaths really who try an play a per ...

Mon Jun 08, 2020 8:19 am • 26 Replies • 9594 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

Being a modest man, when I checked into my hotel on a recent trip, I said to the lady at the registration desk, "I hope the porn channel in my room is disabled." To which she replied, "No, it's regula ...

Mon Jun 08, 2020 3:55 am • 477 Replies • 138212 Views