Spitroasting

This question is both interesting and funny at the same time. Interesting in that it brings up the age old question of how to bring up certain, or less common, kinks with someone who hasn't expressly ...

Sun Jun 21, 2020 2:05 am • 8 Replies • 5373 Views

No locals

HI,
If you like the people here, why not stay around? Like going to a local pub, you get to know the locals, but new people move in also... i.e., you never know when another person from Greece may s ...

Sun Jun 21, 2020 1:40 am • 1 Replies • 2279 Views

Avoiding pitfalls

i tend to believe that "over thinking" is a common sub trait. i can work myself into deep blue funk if i think i have offended someone, without any real evidence to support it, just my imagination. T ...

Sun Jun 21, 2020 12:27 am • 13 Replies • 7923 Views

Spitroasting

As to spitting on your partner....

Some people are into it, some are not. i think it's a kink and doesn't make you a douche because you have it... and some people are into "douche" too.

my own ...

Sat Jun 20, 2020 11:40 pm • 8 Replies • 5373 Views

Spitroasting

i don't think spitroasting means what you think it means. "Spitroasting" means two penetrators at each end and one in the middle, "spitroasted"
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=spit% ...

Sat Jun 20, 2020 11:32 pm • 8 Replies • 5373 Views

When is it over for you?

Thank you everyone, for your responses
I’m ok. Just a lot going on.
I too have always said that when I ask myself that question, that in itself should be the answer.

The battle I have been ...

Fri Jun 19, 2020 7:25 pm • 28 Replies • 12547 Views

Not sure if I should keep going or give up.

This suggests to me that you have expectations... either recognised or unrecognised.

i think this whole post is wonderfully insightful Bunnie.

It seems our desires and needs often venture into ...

Fri Jun 19, 2020 4:02 pm • 21 Replies • 11018 Views

Does anyone think that dirty talk has gotten lazy?

For me, it's not 'dirty talk' if it's not real. my idea of dirty talk is the deep thoughts and desires, especially the taboo ones, that make it to the surface. Anything contrived or obvious effort to ...

Thu Jun 18, 2020 4:02 pm • 16 Replies • 8548 Views

Attraction and profile pictures

It's sad, but fear is a common reason for not posting pictures.

The fear of those pics being abused by someone unscrupulous has some basis in reason. Social rejection for being outed as a kinkster ...

Wed Jun 17, 2020 3:43 pm • 63 Replies • 29443 Views

Re: Married or single subs?

...what should be the better option? Being married and "cheating" on tour wife when you play with a domme from time to time? Or being single and live the lifestyle at it's full, attending events, visi ...

Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:45 pm • 14 Replies • 10424 Views