What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

"I am lying here naked - what are you going to do to me?

Well first step over you and go and make a nice cup of Earl Grey. "

lmao. The site wouldn't let me "like" this 10 times.

Wed May 27, 2020 10:37 pm • 126 Replies • 52263 Views

What is the purpose? Looking for clarification...

i cannot tell from your profile if your relationship is with a woman or man, or ___________? Butt, a picture can sometimes be worth a thousand words, so here are pics of both:

https://xhamster.com ...

Wed May 27, 2020 8:20 pm • 8 Replies • 4662 Views

Young Doms

i should clarify this last sentence i wrote:
"i think a mistake many make on both sides is that there can be a power exchange between labels."

i think the "mistake" is thinking just because one "l ...

Wed May 27, 2020 7:17 pm • 21 Replies • 13537 Views

Young Doms

Great discussion. Thanks everyone for your thoughts and insights.

i'd prolly replace "Young Doms" with "Immature Doms." i don't think age or experience automatically confer wisdom or maturity. i ...

Wed May 27, 2020 6:21 pm • 21 Replies • 13537 Views

Looking to switch it up... but remember I'm still learning

Well, yeah. i sort of love that one can get kinky stuff through Amazon. "Alexa, i need a dildo...."

Amazon is just a big online market place, sort of like a mall, so there are great vendors with qu ...

Wed May 27, 2020 5:54 pm • 8 Replies • 3756 Views

Looking to switch it up... but remember I'm still learning

i've bought quite a few necessities through Amazon.

Wed May 27, 2020 5:47 pm • 8 Replies • 3756 Views

Forced Bi-sexual Encounters

Just for clarification, I don't force anything. I seduce consent to something they secretly already want to do. .

To me, MissBonnie nails this.

i've been thinking of a similar topic for years, i ...

Wed May 27, 2020 4:49 pm • 39 Replies • 38695 Views

Why are men scared?

Wow, some wonderful and insightful input on this thread. i'm grateful for so many of you here. Lot's to consider and add to ones bank of understanding.

i'll come from a different angle. What you d ...

Tue May 26, 2020 10:16 pm • 24 Replies • 11995 Views

Brats

Welcome!

In the short time i have been here, i have discovered a core group of wonderful and thoughtful people. i don't have a great deal of experience or BDSM cultural knowledge, but i've been a ...

Tue May 26, 2020 8:11 pm • 24 Replies • 12837 Views

Is having a secret dom considered cheating?

Preamble: i offer this as just my thoughts and perspective, not a right or wrong judgement or conclusion.

i am so sorry you are going through this. There is so much more to this than we who respon ...

Tue May 26, 2020 7:22 pm • 16 Replies • 10816 Views