Aftercare Advice and Info needed

And subs don't forget your Dom could drop too. So many things can start to go through their heads after the fact. It's always good to check in with them just like they do with you. (Something I never ...

Tue Nov 21, 2023 9:07 pm • 6 Replies • 1047 Views

Aftercare Advice and Info needed

Arthursknight, yes I think sub drop can happen from all sorts of situations and they don't even have to involve kink or sex. I used to have an LDR with my Dom. Whenever he would come to town, even if ...

Fri Nov 17, 2023 2:45 am • 6 Replies • 1047 Views

Subs: How do you feel...

I have never thought about it. I guess that means it doesn't bother me though I may ask questions because of it but usually not until the future. Most of the people I talk to are just that, I am talki ...

Thu Nov 09, 2023 6:05 am • 11 Replies • 1594 Views

Balance

Sololoquy,

Even when I am doing vanilla things, I am constantly thinking about my Dominant and if what I am doing is what he would want me to do. Would it bring him and my dynamic shame. So while I ...

Mon Nov 06, 2023 5:47 pm • 5 Replies • 856 Views

Balance

Sololoquy,

I am just out of a dynamic that although long distance we were living 24-7. When we were together there was an occasional scene but for me the Dominance and submission was for more impor ...

Sun Nov 05, 2023 3:00 am • 5 Replies • 856 Views

Am I wrong for setting an age limit?

It is your limit and no one but you has the right to change it.

Sun Nov 05, 2023 12:25 am • 49 Replies • 6144 Views

Dominants of every flavor

It isn't about the control, it is about the surender.

So I turn the question back on you: What is it you are willing to surrender first?

Now I did not think about that but it feels like a very ...

Wed Nov 01, 2023 3:57 pm • 12 Replies • 1866 Views

Dominants of every flavor

When entering a dynamic what is the first area you want "control" of over your submissive?

Wed Nov 01, 2023 4:17 am • 12 Replies • 1866 Views

True heart

Oh that's a very good question. Does it have to be mutually inclusive or exclusive? And does the person have to "know" it?

Meaning I have known people with a good heart who are in no way lifestyle ...

Wed Nov 01, 2023 12:03 am • 5 Replies • 690 Views

Sub collar

i agree with what has been said. You might want to try to find what you like, what you are comfortable wearing. Will you have a collar for play, a collar for home, and a day collar. Or will you wear t ...

Mon Oct 30, 2023 12:56 am • 7 Replies • 1184 Views