Well, I'm writing this more because I need to take it out than anything. I had a relationship with a domme which ended just a month before lockdown.

Hi there. I am a 40 years old male sub from Madrid, Spain. I have been diving between a vanilla marriage and the lifestyle for a long time. Now about to become divorced and begin to live this at it's ...

This is a question which has always been in my mind. There are thousands more male subs than dominante women, so what should be the better option? Being married and "cheating" on tour wife when you play with a domme from time to time?