Safeword?

I've known bottoms who like to play harder than their tops but have negotiated harder scenes with them because the top had a safeword to stop. It looked more like a ramping down of the scene but they ...

Tue Mar 17, 2020 10:17 pm • 6 Replies • 2846 Views

Safeword?

I'm not saying You are wrong, but those times when I've had to stop a session for some reason I have just stopped it. I don't need a word for it.
On the other hand if it is a group thing, and especia ...

Tue Mar 17, 2020 2:39 am • 6 Replies • 2846 Views

How to Institute Orgasm Control

For women; orgasms are almost all mental.

I think You could say the same about men. We're just shallower.

Sun Mar 15, 2020 5:37 am • 41 Replies • 12739 Views

A question(s) for Doms

I for one, rather have my sub naked all (or at least most of) the time. To me BDSM pretty much is sex, and sex pretty much is BDSM. I don't really think of it in those terms. I like to look at beautif ...

Fri Mar 13, 2020 2:40 am • 12 Replies • 6715 Views

How to Institute Orgasm Control

It's not magic but science. In my language it's called "betingning". I don't know the english word but it could be "conditioning".
It doesn't make orgasm more easy, it only teaches Your brain to reac ...

Sun Mar 08, 2020 9:08 pm • 41 Replies • 12739 Views

How to Institute Orgasm Control

I've experimented with this. Maybe it wasn't entirely ethical because I didn't tell my sub about it, but since we had a TPE relationship I guess it fell within our blanket concent. She figured it out ...

Sun Mar 08, 2020 6:09 pm • 41 Replies • 12739 Views

Can I post pictures showing off my body?

Hi there, new on the cage
Can I just ask -- what are instadoms?

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It's a Dom who isn't really a Dom, but instantly becomes one when he meets (or sees a nude of) a sub.

Sun Mar 08, 2020 3:10 am • 24 Replies • 14573 Views

So... A little help?

Assuming the sub is the one wearing the gasmask, You could remove the filter, passing gas into the mask and then put the filter back on.
Like a reversed gasmask, keeping the gas in instead of out. Pe ...

Sun Mar 08, 2020 2:55 am • 21 Replies • 9937 Views

Initiating the conversation in the “real-world”...

“Is it possible to learn together?”

Of course it is.

With my first partner (i was 18 and she was my first, she was 15 [age of consent where I live, so perfectly legal] and had 1 sexual experien ...

Sat Mar 07, 2020 4:23 pm • 17 Replies • 6113 Views