Brat Tamer?

@SBD: Well... I can attest to that

Thu Jan 28, 2021 9:20 pm • 11 Replies • 5407 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

Here's one that my subbie got:

"Can you move to Algeria?"

That's it. That's the whole message.

Wed Jan 27, 2021 10:45 pm • 126 Replies • 37545 Views

Lets talk about abusers and how to spot them.

Some of the best advice I ever heard, I still give to my step-daughters:

"Watch how he treats the waiters, doormen, gas station attendants, retail clerks, etc. That is how he's going to be treatin ...

Tue Jan 26, 2021 2:17 am • 22 Replies • 6853 Views

Creating a Dom?

If you want to encourage his dominant side, then do things that are submissive to him more.

This. You don't make a husband your dominant by dominating him.

Nature abhors a vacuum. If you beco ...

Thu Jul 09, 2020 8:53 pm • 13 Replies • 4490 Views

Apologies

I have and do apologize for things which I have done, or failed to do which caused problems for other people. And, I sincerely mean it. I don't do "empty apologies". Having said that, if someone de ...

Tue Jul 07, 2020 3:35 am • 30 Replies • 7400 Views

BDSM in Marriage- no more vanilla!

Actually, I'd like to rephrase this just a bit:

The thing here is, you are still husband and wife for *BOTH* parties. You just take on a different role, (slightly), for each. "

You are still hu ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 10:14 pm • 10 Replies • 5481 Views

The Approach - able Question

@rottenbrat: "Don't stop making an effort after the first or the twentieth private message and don't let it drop to one word responses. "

OK.

(Sorry... couldn't resist!)

Seriously, one wo ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 10:07 pm • 11 Replies • 3891 Views

Re: BDSM in Marriage- no more vanilla!

Hi, I'm reaching out to people new and vetted in the bdsm community just wanting to make friends.

Welcome! And please, keep asking questions -- we're here to help in any way we reasonably can. ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 9:51 pm • 10 Replies • 5481 Views

Dominant or Master...

It is necessary for a submissive to make sacrifices in order to be a slave. It is also necessary for a Dominant to make sacrifices in order to be a Master.

Now that's a Bunnie hitting a nail on th ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 8:39 pm • 16 Replies • 6428 Views

just got ghosted??

@Huntmaster: And the truly sad part? She undoubtedly believes and tells everyone that YOU ghosted HER.

Sun Jul 05, 2020 8:12 pm • 24 Replies • 10257 Views