Dom Bashing.

I find a lot of people bash/judge someone else for things they fail to understand. i try to never judge another Dom/Me sub slave when i only see half the story. there are three sides to everyone hi ...

Wed Mar 10, 2021 6:50 pm • 10 Replies • 4417 Views

Real Life, Online or Both?

i never understood the online only relationship honestly (not judging because while not for me it what works for others). Online is great to meet people but i need real time. the peace one gets at kne ...

Wed Mar 10, 2021 6:32 pm • 36 Replies • 8841 Views

True dominance

You saying telling a sub/slave what to do and how do it, is wrong. to me its how i learn their likes dislikes, i also love it.
... Granted i live this life as a slave so my way of looking at things ...

Fri Feb 26, 2021 11:32 pm • 10 Replies • 4672 Views

Re: True dominance

honestly dominance means different things to each person. what works for you might not work for the next person. Anyone telling anyone their feelings are wrong, is a jerk in my book. no ones feelings ...

Thu Feb 25, 2021 11:48 pm • 10 Replies • 4672 Views

Questions to Subs: Thoughts on Eternity Collars, Anklets, Lock Piercings and other Permanent Items?

I'm a bit playful. I like the single rung collar: strong leather, but unlocked as I expect everyone to work- no free rides.

My wife on the other hand got my insignia tattooed to her right leg. Of c ...

Thu Feb 11, 2021 6:39 pm • 31 Replies • 11509 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

Honestly, I really hate it when one of the first things someone says to me is " Would you like to be my sub" or "I'm looking for a sub and I think you fit".

I'm just like yes of course, random per ...

Thu Feb 04, 2021 11:38 pm • 126 Replies • 41179 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

I am lying here naked - what are you going to do to me?

Well first step over you and go and make a nice cup of Earl Grey.

Somehow that ended the conversation.

FD

ROFL i can soooo see that ...

Thu Feb 04, 2021 11:36 pm • 126 Replies • 41179 Views

Re: BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

A chat room discussion last night prompted my thinking on this topic. Someone presented the position that a good sub or slave would never be in a position where they need punishment, as long as the Do ...

Sun Dec 06, 2020 4:57 am • 43 Replies • 10024 Views

Re: To everyone

[quote="sapphireblu"]Will you just stop!

I’ve been chatting with some for the last few days.
I was enjoying our chats, he to told me he was enjoying them too. Then all of a sudden crickets, radio ...

Sun Nov 29, 2020 6:39 pm • 35 Replies • 13235 Views

Wrong type of submission?

Hate people like that! Just because you don't fit their idea of slave/submissive doesn't mean someone else what want what you offer.

I won't call them fake because I don't know them and what might ...

Sat Nov 14, 2020 4:06 pm • 9 Replies • 2325 Views