What to do other than beg for attention

I watch porn on a regular basis, then try to reach an orgasm.

Tue Jan 18, 2022 7:22 am • 36 Replies • 7980 Views

What to do other than beg for attention

I watch porn on a regular basis, then try to reach an orgasm.

Tue Jan 18, 2022 7:21 am • 36 Replies • 7980 Views

Doms on Tinder?

@eclecticrhetoric

Yes, It can take time before someone strips off their mask to show you that they were full of it, do not care about you on any level what's so ever.

I just do not belong on th ...

Tue Jan 18, 2022 6:06 am • 12 Replies • 7736 Views

Judgemental people

I find it odd that when people step into the kink, Bdsm, D/s world, their expectations of human beings becomes one if thinking everyone is welcoming, open, tolerant, kind of like a unicorn.
Human bei ...

Tue Jan 18, 2022 4:38 am • 55 Replies • 15268 Views

Judgemental people

I find it odd that when people step into the kink, Bdsm, D/s world, their expectations of human beings becomes one if thinking everyone is welcoming, open, tolerant, kind of like a unicorn.
Human bei ...

Tue Jan 18, 2022 4:37 am • 55 Replies • 15268 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

He just gave you a collar after three years? He definitely was having his cake and eating it too.

@charlesutter

People give gifts to others for many reasons:

to buy their love or affection
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Sat Dec 11, 2021 12:28 pm • 32 Replies • 12449 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

I know this post is almost a year gone. I would like to add to the thoughts already expressed. A Dom goes out of their way to make a sub want them, desire them, be constantly hot for them.
It IS tha ...

Sat Dec 11, 2021 12:17 pm • 32 Replies • 12449 Views

Aftercare While Long Distance

The obvious answer is:
Have you asked your sub what they would like, what would make them feel safe, what do they need?
This should be a talk when you two are sitting down relaxed and as equals.
...

Sat Dec 11, 2021 10:58 am • 10 Replies • 10967 Views

A little nervous

Hard left there @detached. Sounds like OP is nervous about domming and wondering how to initiate… I think walking into the bedroom with a strap on is gonna send somebody running for the hills if not e ...

Sat Dec 11, 2021 10:50 am • 8 Replies • 3921 Views

punishments to deal with playful Sub

I’ve always found that a good punishment either in person or through communication is not talking or responding.

One thing to push buttons but want a punishment, ok, will chat with you in a couple ...

Mon Sep 20, 2021 2:40 pm • 32 Replies • 19357 Views