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A call to: Alpha Female Subs

I prefer to just be myself. I really like people (this includes Doms) who get to know someone before they start telling me what I am. Im not compatible with folks who think in blanket statements. You ...

Tue Aug 22, 2023 4:02 am • 21 Replies • 5499 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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A call to: Alpha Female Subs

352

Stupid Questions for Men

Does what a pussy looks like matter to you?

Do they feel a lot different from woman to woman?

What’s the best thing about being a man? The worst?

Similar to another question posed, I'll answ ...

Mon Aug 21, 2023 4:49 am • 65 Replies • 16476 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Stupid Questions for Men

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

I think it's time we all acted like adults and shut this thread down.

It has gone from a discussion over how to handle an overflowing inbox to bashing fellow members. Which is against site policy. ...

Sun Aug 20, 2023 3:31 am • 25 Replies • 6409 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

Solace

*We can also sit here and say victim blaming is a horrible thing, and in many instances it is terrible. However, a man who goes a construction site with out a hard hat on and gets injured ...

Sun Aug 20, 2023 3:25 am • 25 Replies • 6409 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

Solace

*We can also sit here and say victim blaming is a horrible thing, and in many instances it is terrible. However, a man who goes a construction site with out a hard hat on and gets injured ...

Sun Aug 20, 2023 3:13 am • 25 Replies • 6409 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

I'mME,

You're grandstanding.

I never said it was a ladies fault for being raped. I suggest you check your reading comprehension, re-read what I and others have written, slowly, word for word, o ...

Sun Aug 20, 2023 3:05 am • 25 Replies • 6409 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

I would say, in response to djinni, that I am speaking from the perspective of someone who HAS been raped and assaulted and victim blamed and victim shamed. I’ve been scared to leave my house. I’ve be ...

Fri Aug 18, 2023 3:02 am • 25 Replies • 6409 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

Thank you for moving the topic, the original OP did in fact deserve her space and not to have it hijacked by an alternative discussion.

The issue at heart is you escalated something beyond the subs ...

Fri Aug 18, 2023 2:50 am • 25 Replies • 6409 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

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Hookups

Scattered thoughts.

For safety, a BDSM club makes sense to me... not a perfect fix but seems safer and more practical than a profile on a hook up site. At least you've narrowed your potentials to ...

Tue Aug 15, 2023 5:03 am • 60 Replies • 16629 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Hookups

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Hookups

That is your opinion that I was not making any sense. I don't believe that you were making a joke, as a matter of fact, I think you were dead serious.

I will keep that in mind for the future. ...

Mon Aug 14, 2023 5:34 pm • 60 Replies • 16629 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Hookups