Best way to empty her bowel to prepare her for anal sex?

First and foremost ,

She is normal, people shit out of their butthole and that's just the way our bodies are made.

Why would you think a garden hose should go into anyone's anus? The threaded ...

Wed May 17, 2023 10:04 am • 38 Replies • 6826 Views

LIMITS as stated in your profile

I agree that subs limits should change over time, but a fully aware Dom already know their limits.

I'm quite sure that a Doms limits can' and so change.

Mon May 08, 2023 7:29 am • 39 Replies • 6058 Views

How to Have Hard BDSM Conversations

I am in 100 % agreement with dollMaker.

In the beginning negotiations should take place in a neutral spot outside of the roles. Later negotiations should be the same way. One of main reasons is wh ...

Mon May 08, 2023 7:27 am • 9 Replies • 1750 Views

LIMITS as stated in your profile

I don’t list my limits in public nor do I discuss my limits with just anyone. Blaring your limits out there for the world to see is just like tossing all your trauma out for everyone to examine. Those ...

Sat May 06, 2023 6:21 am • 39 Replies • 6058 Views

Let's talk primal

To me it's always been the more animalistic side of things.

Bondage, what with the ties and the ceremonies and the artistry and the toys and tools, can be somewhat ritualistic in nature. Primal pla ...

Sat May 06, 2023 5:14 am • 55 Replies • 15379 Views

Re: How to battle Insecurities during sex?

First of all, you are fine as fuck. The advice given in this thread is pretty excellent. I have a similar problem - I don't even like getting my picture taken. I don't think I'm ugly (I like the w ...

Tue May 02, 2023 10:20 am • 17 Replies • 2397 Views

Re: Time wasters?

Anyone else on here, had to deal with time wasters before? Like say you hit a person in their inbox letting them know you interested in them, they reciprocate the energy back and you trying to see whe ...

Tue May 02, 2023 3:05 am • 65 Replies • 8413 Views

How to battle Insecurities during sex?

Heero,

The only problem I see with you providing the praise is that it is external validation. This is about internal validation. I would suggest that you change it, just a little.

Sure, have ...

Sun Apr 30, 2023 12:15 pm • 17 Replies • 2397 Views

Advice on being turned down by a Dominant.

Move on. Start talking to other people. I understand you feel he is everything you feel you want, however, you have been rejected. I understand you feel there is still a slightly open door called the ...

Wed Apr 26, 2023 3:22 am • 33 Replies • 5200 Views

Is this normal?

Thank you @Heero.
I seem to recall this thread. For me personally, sub drop goes away when I'm in a stable, long-term, committed relationship. I think a big part of the problem that causes sub drop ...

Fri Apr 21, 2023 7:35 am • 15 Replies • 2666 Views